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Old 03-22-2016, 01:12 PM
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Hello everyone,

I'm new to this site (as of today), and I'm nearly two months sober. I'm considering using this forum to supplement my AA meetings. I am SO ready for the obsession to go away. I've been working hard to do all the right things and follow advice, but my cravings are very strong. Still, I am going to try my best not to "cave." I wish everyone the best in recovery.
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Old 03-22-2016, 01:35 PM
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Welcome, and congratulations on 2 months sober. Super!

I'm sorry you are still having strong cravings after two months. What kind of changes have you made in your life besides stopping drinking?
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Old 03-22-2016, 01:38 PM
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Welcome to SR, NickiJay. And congratulations on your nearly two months of sobriety. Cravings are the worst, aren't they? Mine would hit, out of the blue, and wash over me like an ocean wave. Fortunately, you will find that those cravings will become less severe and less frequent over time.

Have you learned about HALT? (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) I found that when the cravings were at their worst, I was usually experiencing one or more of the HALT conditions, especially hunger. Once I ate something, the alcohol cravings almost always subsided.

I am glad you are here with us. You will find a lot of support and helpful advice from the good people here. I know I have.

I hope you will post often and let us know how you are doing.
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Welcome to the family. The best thing I ever did for my sobriety was to start practicing gratitude every day. It gave me a positive outlook and helped the cravings go away.
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Welcome Nikijay
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Old 03-22-2016, 01:48 PM
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Welcome and congratulations on two months
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Welcome NickiJay. Congrats on 2 months sober. I promise it does get easier with each passing day that you stay sober. You're building your sober platform for your future.

Welcome and great job!
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Welcome NickiJay and congrats on 2 months. One of the great things about this place is there's someone here to help you out 24/7 if you need it.
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Welcome NJ.

This site plus AA kept me going through those first tough months. Glad you found us .
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Old 03-22-2016, 04:36 PM
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Old 03-22-2016, 04:43 PM
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Welcome to the family nickijay. You have come to the right place e1 is so supportive.
Congrats on 2 months xx
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Old 03-22-2016, 06:28 PM
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Welcome, NickiJay! Glad you have joined us - I'm still new here too...have you visited the 24 hour forum? It's really helpful with trying to focus on one ay at a time, and everyone is so supportive!
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Old 03-22-2016, 06:31 PM
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Hello NickiJay
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Old 03-22-2016, 06:34 PM
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Good to meet you, Nicki! We all understand how you feel. Congrats on your two months. You're still healing - things will get better. Welcome.
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Old 03-22-2016, 07:04 PM
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Welcome NickiJay, congratulations on two months! You will find a wealth of support and knowledge here.
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Old 03-22-2016, 08:15 PM
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welcome!! I like to use both AA meetings and these forums as well congratulations on 2 months!
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Old 03-22-2016, 11:07 PM
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Thank you all so much for the support and wonderful advice. It's good to be here!
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