Notices

hello

Thread Tools
 
Old 06-10-2015, 11:14 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Jun 2015
Posts: 3
hello

I am a new member. I found this forum after reflecting. Drinking sake and soju has been a part of my life. At social activities I drink often. many people I know stopped drinking after marriage; myself left with no drinking friend. When stressed I drink, though I don't compare it to frat party black out drunk, I tend to drink often, even alone. I was in two back to back toxic relationships. With drinking it calmed me. many cannot tell if I am buzzed... Now I am free and live alone but I still drink. I looked at my bank bill and see $80 spent on drinks in one month and wonder if it is true what my friends say.. that I am an alcoholic and not a casual drinker. I hope to read other stories here on this forum and figure my confusion out.
karimx00 is offline  
Old 06-10-2015, 11:31 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,445
Hi and welcome Karim

I think if you want to stop, but you continue to drink, then yes you have a problem.

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 04:10 AM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
Axiom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2014
Location: U.S.A.
Posts: 346
Welcome to the forum.
Axiom is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 04:15 AM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Member
 
Nerina's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2015
Posts: 82
Welcome
Nerina is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 04:24 AM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Re-Member
 
CaseyW's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 7,909
Welcome to SR, karimx00! If your friends are saying that there is a problem with your drinking, it's probably a wise decision to take a look at said drinking. There is a ton of great support and wisdom to be found on these forums. Take advantage of them and check in often!
CaseyW is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 04:45 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: C.C. Ma.
Posts: 3,697
Hi.

Only you can detect if there is a problem drinking. To determine that, we need to be honest with ourself and accept that we may be alcoholic.
Be aware in regards this subject, far too many will automatically reject that line of thinking with loads of rationality or cloudy memory.

There are web based tests that are accurate if we answer honestly.

BE WELL
IOAA2 is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 07:17 AM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
firstymer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Location: Upper Midwest
Posts: 1,730
Welcome to SR, Karim. I am glad that you are here with us. You will find a lot of support and helpful advice from the good people here. I know I have.

Good luck.
firstymer is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 10:53 AM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
 
PurpleKnight's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Ireland
Posts: 25,826
Welcome to the Forum Karim!!
PurpleKnight is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 12:40 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Community Greeter
 
Hevyn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 51,569
We're glad to meet you Karim. I think being here will help you make a decision about your drinking habits. You aren't alone.
Hevyn is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 01:06 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Do your best
 
Soberwolf's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2014
Posts: 67,047
Welcome to SR
Soberwolf is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 02:06 PM
  # 11 (permalink)  
bona fido dog-lover
 
least's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: SF Bay area, CA
Posts: 99,784
Welcome to the family. I hope the support here can help you get sober for good.
least is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 02:10 PM
  # 12 (permalink)  
Member
 
gettingsmarter's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2014
Posts: 2,978
Welcome karimx. Glad you found us. This is a really good place.
gettingsmarter is offline  
Old 06-11-2015, 07:14 PM
  # 13 (permalink)  
Guest
 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 198
Welcome. We are glad you are here
Time2Focus is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:41 AM.