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Old 02-17-2015, 12:17 PM
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So I'm on my ninth day sober. My Girlfriend wanted me to drink yesterday and was asking why I wont.I just kept refusing she got drunk. I'd still enjoyed my day. Only to find a rat crawl into my favorite drinking glass and been dead there for awhile. Rancid smell. I think something watching over me lol
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Old 02-17-2015, 12:21 PM
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Great job on Day 9!!

Would it maybe be an idea to sit down and have a chat with your girlfriend on your decision to be Sober? that this is a serious life changing decision, because that conversation is going to keep coming up over and over again!!
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Old 02-17-2015, 12:36 PM
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Great job on Day 9!!

Would it maybe be an idea to sit down and have a chat with your girlfriend on your decision to be Sober? that this is a serious life changing decision, because that conversation is going to keep coming up over and over again!!
Yeah I will. It's kind of strange because we
are still part of this age group were drinking is prevalent. She still trying to hold on to this peter pan world when it comes to this. Myself, I just feel like its time to grow up. I don't want her to feel like I'm forcing her to be sober too.
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Old 02-17-2015, 12:48 PM
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Good job on nine days, QuietHero.
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Well done on great progress
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Old 02-17-2015, 12:52 PM
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Yeah I will. It's kind of strange because we
are still part of this age group were drinking is prevalent. She still trying to hold on to this peter pan world when it comes to this. Myself, I just feel like its time to grow up. I don't want her to feel like I'm forcing her to be sober too.
No harm in explaining that this is something you have to do for YOU, and because of that it's your choice, decision and journey to be Sober, she is still free to make her own decision to continue to drink, one is in no way dependant on the other, everybody wins!!
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Old 02-17-2015, 12:53 PM
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Great job Quiethero but id definatly have a talk with your gf bud
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