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11-06-2014, 10:22 AM

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Soberwolf

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Death in the family

Some of you may know that my gf godmother was recently admitted To a hospice

my gf Godmother passed this morning

She was Alcoholic with 25+ years sober she was 59 and always made me laugh she was a nice lady and is now with the Angels

Im not going to drink but im not ok

11-06-2014, 10:25 AM

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biminiblue

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((soberwolf))

It's hard, take care of yourself. She will be in your heart, always. So sorry for your loss.

11-06-2014, 10:27 AM

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Popeye2014

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Sorry to hear that, Wolf

11-06-2014, 10:29 AM

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Mark1014

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I'm very sorry soberwolf. Losses like that are difficult at best .Wishing you and your family strength and inner peace.

11-06-2014, 10:29 AM

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JT0626

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Sorry to hear that. (((hugs)))

11-06-2014, 10:30 AM

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SoberLeigh

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((((my good friend, soberwolf))))).

I am so sorry about your gf's godmother; she gave you the great gift of inspiration - what a foundation on which to build an addition to your already strong house of sobriety.

It is okay to hurt and grieve; it is a necessary part of healing.

SR is here for you. I am here for you.

11-06-2014, 10:33 AM

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Laura567

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Sorry for your loss!

11-06-2014, 10:37 AM

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LadyinBC

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I am so sorry to hear this. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers today.

11-06-2014, 10:37 AM

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CAPTAINZING2000

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sorry for your loss

11-06-2014, 10:37 AM

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Findingtheway

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Soberwolf my friend. I'm sorry to hear this.

I lost my beloved Grandmother 4 years ago...The pain was intense. But in time i was able to think about her with being sad.

Again you have my condolences.

Here if you need to talk.

11-06-2014, 10:37 AM

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Hawks

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Rest in peace godmother & take care SW.

Thoughts are with you & yours.

11-06-2014, 10:40 AM

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ArtFriend

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So sorry for your loss Wolf! 59 is too young to pass. Prayers for you!

11-06-2014, 10:47 AM

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Opivotal

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So sorry, soberwolf. Prayers to you and your GF.

11-06-2014, 10:50 AM

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Nowsthetime

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Big hugs to you and Mrs. SoberWolf. You are both in my thoughts! It's always hard to deal with these kinds of things so know that your SR peeps are here for you!

11-06-2014, 10:51 AM

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Soberwolf

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Thank you we both knew it was coming but it just hurts she said she was in so much pain she wish it would end now she is with the Angels and the stars and is out of pain

im going to be there for her of course its just my head is very fuzzy right now

there is no thought for drinking and i guess this is just one of those things

stiff upper lip time

11-06-2014, 10:51 AM

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Nuudawn

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I'm so sorry my friend. You're loss is in my thoughts today...

11-06-2014, 11:20 AM

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Barnumb

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I am personally very sorry for your and your girlfriends loss. 25 years sober...that is commitment. Drinking won't bring her back. I am sad for your loss. Sorry Soberwolf.

11-06-2014, 11:25 AM

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I am so sorry for your loss.

11-06-2014, 11:26 AM

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SoberLeigh

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It's okay to let that stiff upper lip tremble a bit. You are hurting, too; is okay to allow yourself to be comforted.

We are here for you, sw.

11-06-2014, 11:28 AM

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Fly N Buy

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Sorry my friend. I know it hurts like hell......
Your Godmother was a winner in every sense of the word pal.

You are part of her legacy, and I know she is proud of you wolf!!!

peace to you brother,
fly