Mummfus

As I have been posting. About my ex in rehab I finally know what actually happen her she posted on her face book that she had a boy friend. Well like not hour later he contacts me on messenger. And tells me that he worked as a rehab specialist were she was at and that he brain washed her to not to talk to me cause he fell in love with her and also told me that they were together 6 days a week and that he's going to marry her like for real I'm pisst very pist how can they do that like dam I'm so pisst

bunnezjp

....I'm sorry.

Bunnez

Mummfus

Man this is not right what a piece of crap

Soberwolf

Read some of your post i think whats happening is very unfair and hurtful

i think its time to move on were all here to support you know that

really sorry dude

Mummfus

I want revenge I paid for the rehab like why ??? I want revenge this guy can't get away with this

Soberwolf

Revenge is pointless i understand your angry right now

you need to walk away from this situation it is going to make you toxic

please try to stay calm maybe somebody else with more experience will offer better advice

BadCompany

What is a rehab specialist? I've never heard of that.

Mummfus

He worked there

Mummfus

Gave her therapy 6 days a week for 4 months then brains wash her Not to talk to me then he wants to marry her like wow. I'm do MADD

Soberwolf

Try to focus....your gf is in recovery a lot of change happens in recovery

i find it strange and unusual something like this happened could you not report it to the rehab centre ?

never heard of this happening before

and i find it unbelievable that he would go on messanger to taunt you

the more i think about this the less i believe it if this has really happened i apoligise

can i ask why your not posting in friends and family ?

SonomaGal

If this is true and he really does work there (make sure), I would contact the supervisor and read the message he sent you. Ask the supervisor to clearly explain the staff rules in regards to employees fraternizing with patients. At the very least you may be able to get this employee terminated for acting in appropriately.

OpioPhobe

Are you sure someone isn't pulling your leg on this one? If someone did brainwash your ex why would they contact you on 'messenger' and confess to it?

Dee74

Rehab romances happen Mummfus - and sometimes they're sometimes between staff and patients.

Sounds like you deserve better,
You might be better off moving on on this one, I think?

D

Soberwolf

im so sorry mummfus im wet behind the ears

i would never think this sort of thing could happen esp with staff and patients

i would report the person and walk away

so so sorry cant believe this sort of thing happens

my apoligies

Mummfus

Yes I have his name and rehab and message

Mummfus

And he brags about it I'm so pist I want to find him and do something about it it's not right just to pisst to think what an animal

DoubleBarrel

Contact the director of the rehab, if for no other reason than if is a real situation, this guy needs to be outed and disciplined. People in recovery are confused, lost souls, going through a lot of confusion, emotions and pain, and anyone preying on that is despicable.

That being said, she still is a person who would do this to you. I don't believe in brainwashing per se. So, why would you want to be with her? I think it's time to move on, and be glad to be rid of such un healthiness.

foryoumyson

Move on man if she did this to u she'll do it to him. The best revenge is living well.

OpioPhobe

I am not familiar with this 'messenger' application, but if you could print the correspondence that might be helpful. If the rehab facility doesn't do anything about it then you could still hold on to it. In the event they do get married you can make your entrance at the 'or forever hold your peace' part and hand out copies to all the guests. You could also consult an attorney about the laws regarding assault and battery in your area if you think it is worth it.

You could do all that and probably a thousand things or you can take the higher ground and let it go. The guy sounds like a titanic douche bag honestly. Who goes around bragging about 'brainwashing' someone to get them to marry him? I doubt there is anything you could do to make his life more miserable than he will be able to accomplish on his own.

mcfearless

Rehab is a very emotional experience and its easy for people to muddle the feeling of support and intimacy that comes with it. Once she is out of this environment it very likely to fade into the vapid often drug induced facade that rehab relationships generally are.