jarp

He's gone to a 7-10 day voluntary detox. He's not allowed outside contact, by phone, email, in person etc.

For the first time in years I feel.....peace? Well at least a lack of anxiety!!

Not bc I hold some burning hope....although thee is a tiny little flame of that....but mainly because I know he's not going to be in the house, he's not going to try to get in the house, he's not going to ring and beg to come home, I'm not going to get suicide threats. I'm not gong to have to call ambo's or police, or taxis to take him away when he turns up. No abusive calls, no manipulation, no fear something terrible is happening to him.

Just me. And the kids.

As long as he stays there he is safe, and can't contact me.

I know it's not forever, but for the next week or so, I am....free.

meggem

that feeling is something you are entitled to have for more than 7-10 days.

I'm in the middle of leaving my supposed RA. Moving august 1st - it was nice to read your post that peace could be coming for me.

hugs and take care.

jarp

Thanks meggem.... Rereading my post I thought exactly what you've just said. Well done on moving forward and I wish you long term peace!!

Hugs back!

dtc76

Jarp, sometimes there is nothing I can say because I know how you feel so I just wanna say enjoy your week with your children. I hope things get better for you and I am sending you love, hope and big hugs

Hawkeye13

I'm so glad you are getting a respite.
You being able to relax will also have a postive impact on your kids.

Take care of yourself and try to have some fun and relaxing activities for all of you

I agree that this can and should last for more than 7 -10 days. . .

lillamy

You know, a person could get used to that kind of situation...

I know when I had court ordered NC with my ex, it was like a ton of rocks were lifted off my shoulders. I could even breathe easier.

Enjoy your time with the kiddos.

Blossom717

enjoy that peace! its nice.