First AA Meeting Drunk
First AA Meeting Drunk
I went to my first AA meeting today. Everyone was really accepting, but I had a few Icehouses before the meeting, but I felt awkward. I don't know know how to "tap" into the positive energy. Not because I am cynic, but the joy seems absolutely joyless ... forced, if you will. I am thinking of going tonight, but I don't know if it will help. I paid my bills; I am broke. I can live another month alcohol free, but sometimes I'd rather be alone. Any advice?
I am still trying to remember everyones' names ... because I care about them. I'm sorry I was drunk; but, I am 48 hours into this. Nevermind, I am getting angry. It isn't productive. I am sorry, so sorry. Best wishes.
Well, once I was in a meeting and a guy came in drunk. We said: come back when you're
not drinking. We didn't say come back when you're sober. The only requirement for membership in AA is a desire to stop drinking!
not drinking. We didn't say come back when you're sober. The only requirement for membership in AA is a desire to stop drinking!
Icehouse is really more of a working-in-the-garage beer.
You really ought to be drinking something more upscale like Heineken if you're going to AA. Have a little class, bub!
Just kidding.
I don't think anyone is taking offense. Karma merely responded to your request for advice by advising you to stop drinking -- and we're on SoberRecovery, the advice here generally follows that common theme -- unless someone is joking around
You really ought to be drinking something more upscale like Heineken if you're going to AA. Have a little class, bub!
Just kidding.
I don't think anyone is taking offense. Karma merely responded to your request for advice by advising you to stop drinking -- and we're on SoberRecovery, the advice here generally follows that common theme -- unless someone is joking around
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Join Date: Apr 2014
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I drank to get to my first one, and my second and my 3rd. I think a lot of people do that bc many of us have natural anxiety about new situations and people. Even in my field, I don't mind meeting people but if it isn't on mu terms, then I do mind. That said, I can smell beer drinkers that come... Prob bc beer was never my drink of choice anyway. Vodka was. Anyway, the reason it is good to stop drinking imo before meetings is bc how ironic would it be if AA meetings were a trigger for you. You are shooting yourself before you even have a chance to aim.
SkyBlueSky, great that you went to a meeting. Try to make the next one. Don't worry about remembering people's names. It took me a while and I still forget names at meetings. When you start remembering faces is a good sign. The names will come. The important thing is to just go whether you feel like it or not. It beats being bored at home for sure.
I'm glad to hear you went.
I'm glad to hear you went.
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Join Date: Apr 2014
Location: Alberta, Canada
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Blue sky, we had a guy that would come to meetings for years upon years, having drank be for hand. The old timers always welcomed him, saying keep coming back; at least it is one hour without drinking, and one time you may hear something that sticks. Don't quit before the magic happens. I am glad you posted here. I do think you want sobriety..
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Join Date: Apr 2014
Location: New York, NY
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You're not alone. I've definitely gone to a few meetings with vodka in a water bottle and honestly I felt so ashamed about it that it kept me from keeping up with meetings. And that just led to more vodka and solitude.
I'm getting ready to head to my first meeting back...sober. I know I can do it and so can you. Good luck.
I'm getting ready to head to my first meeting back...sober. I know I can do it and so can you. Good luck.
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