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Old 09-18-2013, 09:35 AM
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Mike's status update

Hi guys!

It’s been awhile since I’ve given an update on my life and I wanted to share where things are now.

It’s been 2.5 years since I separated from my AW and I’m going through big changes again. My daughter who lives not far from me is moving out west with her family. I mean like thousands of miles. Wow.

The only family I have in the area is my stbxaw and I don’t see any reason to hang around.

My other daughter and her family live near Memphis Tn. So, I am taking a leap of faith. I am quitting my job and moving to Memphis. I don’t have any jobs lined up but I am ok money wise for the time being. I’m going to stay with them for awhile and find my own place nearby.

It will be a great opportunity to spend time with my grandsons. I don’t know what I want to do job wise but I’ll figure it out when I get there.

I’m calling it a reboot. I’m rebooting my life and starting over.

I’ll be honest though, without SR and Al-Anon I never would have been able to do something like this on my own or maybe ever at all. I’m feeling some anxiety but it is more excitement than fear although I want to keep both of them under control.

So to everyone who has been on this journey with me I want to say thank you. This success is as much yours as it is mine. And to all the new people on the site, it does get better, much, much, much better.


Not bad for an old fart of 59.

Your friend,
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Old 09-18-2013, 09:40 AM
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Way too go, Mike, that is awesome!!! Congratulations on your new life, and thankyou for letting us all know that recovery works.

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That is so great, Mike! It's scary but exciting. Good luck in your new endeavor!
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Go, Mike, Go!! That sounds like a great opportunity for your next adventure. SO happy for you!
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59 is NOT old fart material! Once you hit 60 it'll be the new 30!!!

Have a blast! You're going to have so much fun with those grand babies!!! Live it up man!!!
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how awesome!

I love Memphis!! It would be my dream job to be a tourguide at Graceland!! Thank ya Thank ya very much! ha ha ha!

Enjoy the blessings of all the wonderful new opportunities and the ability to be near those grandsons!

Wishing you the best!!

pink hugs!
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Oh, I love Memphis. Congratulations on your life reboot!
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Congratulations and good luck! Where out west is the other daughter moving? I went from Virginia to Washington and surprisingly fell in love with the Pacific Northwest.
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Mike, I could not be more thrilled for you! Wishing you a smooth transition, and many wonderful times with your grandbabies!
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Old 09-18-2013, 12:24 PM
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My other daughter is going to Colorado. That's going to be my new vacation destination.
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This makes me smile.

We get one life, and I'm glad you're going for it and making a change! I wish you much happiness and serenity in this next exciting chapter!
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Mike, I live in Memphis and we have a very good Al Anon community here. PM me if you'd like to - I'd be happy to help in any way I can.
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Grandsons....Memphis....it's all good!!!! Congrats!!!!!
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Good on you Mike, take life by the horns and ride it! I am crossing the pond to the states with my hubby for 2 years in January, very new territory for me, but all my SR pals will be coming along for te ride, so it doesn't seem so scary! All the best for your future x
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Good for you, Mike! I don't blame you for taking that leap to be near family!! I wish you all the best.
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Old 09-18-2013, 04:46 PM
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That's so awesome Mike.

Have fun with all of it.

Yay!
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Congrats!
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An exciting new chapter begins, so very happy for you!!!
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Old 09-19-2013, 03:08 AM
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Good for you Mike! Sounds like a great plan to me.
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How exciting!!!! Enjoy
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