Politely Disagreeing
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Politely Disagreeing
I thought these might come in handy from time to time here. Please add more.
Yes, but don’t you think that…
Perhaps, but I can’t help thinking that…
I see what you mean but I’m not sure that…
True, but I’m afraid I disagree (with)…
Yes, but don’t you think that…
Perhaps, but I can’t help thinking that…
I see what you mean but I’m not sure that…
True, but I’m afraid I disagree (with)…
Can we be more blunt?!
I'm very sorry old chum, but you don't know what the fck your talking about!
Very True my friend, but I'm afraid your talking absolute shite
I see what you mean, but I still think your a patronising asrehole
Perhaps, but I cant help thinking that your just an argumentative pr1ck.
When all else fail use mine
I'm very sorry old chum, but you don't know what the fck your talking about!
Very True my friend, but I'm afraid your talking absolute shite
I see what you mean, but I still think your a patronising asrehole
Perhaps, but I cant help thinking that your just an argumentative pr1ck.
When all else fail use mine
I know we're having fun...fun is good....but it is a serious issue here, and I wouldn't like anyone to doubt that
Not many people seem to read our General Principles...and I think that's a shame - so here they are:
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Not many people seem to read our General Principles...and I think that's a shame - so here they are:
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Tolerance: Please respect the rights of others to hold beliefs and perspectives, which differ from yours. Our Sober Recovery Forum members are of many nationalities, ages, and cultures. Healthy, vigorous debate will further our goals, but only when guided by the tolerance that springs from mutual embrace of mission.
Intellectual Freedom: Embrace diversity of practice. It is impossible to understand an action without first understanding the actor and their environment. Know that varied environments call for varied response. Your way may not be the best way.
Freedom of Speech: We resist censorship in favor of free speech. Within our forums, we support the broadest range of perspectives and expression, for it is the unification of diversity to cause that gives strength to our community. We are committed to equal opportunity. Influence and responsibility here are inseparable, and both spring solely from a demonstrated commitment to furthering the topics discussed in our forums. Bear in mind, however, that some language and conduct is still considered inappropriate.
Responsible Behavior: Your attendance here carries a responsibility. Ours is a mission of mind and perspective, and consequently, attention is our most precious resource. Do not waste what attention you may attract, nor seek to attract it with wasteful actions. Remember that personal worldview is a most powerful motivator; never treat another's lightly.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ting-tips.html
How about, "I like what you are saying, AND, have you thought about. . ." Keeps the conversation going. . .
If you don't like what they are saying, respectively disagree, and respect the person, even if you don't agree what they are saying.
I have to say that this community is very good at constructive dialogue. Sometimes we get tired or frustrated, and type before we think.
Enough out of me. :-)
If you don't like what they are saying, respectively disagree, and respect the person, even if you don't agree what they are saying.
I have to say that this community is very good at constructive dialogue. Sometimes we get tired or frustrated, and type before we think.
Enough out of me. :-)
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I aggree IndaMiracle. "Yeah, but" makes a convenient excuse. But it also seems to be a good way to soften disagreement. Several of the phrases suggested here essentially start that way. Since we're all recovering alcoholics/addicts, it ought to come naturally to us :-) Thanks for getting things back on track Dee.
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