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Old 10-16-2012, 05:53 AM
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I thought these might come in handy from time to time here. Please add more.

Yes, but don’t you think that…
Perhaps, but I can’t help thinking that…
I see what you mean but I’m not sure that…
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Old 10-16-2012, 06:27 AM
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Can we be more blunt?!

I'm very sorry old chum, but you don't know what the fck your talking about!
Very True my friend, but I'm afraid your talking absolute shite
I see what you mean, but I still think your a patronising asrehole
Perhaps, but I cant help thinking that your just an argumentative pr1ck.

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Old 10-16-2012, 06:30 AM
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I haven't laughed like this at anything online for a longtime, Sneeker. Thanks.
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Old 10-16-2012, 06:47 AM
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LOL, perhaps you should start a "How NOT to politely disagree thread".
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Old 10-16-2012, 07:23 AM
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The alcoholic and addcits favorite word ... Yea But


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Old 10-16-2012, 01:44 PM
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Seriously speaking, it helps me to balance advocacy and inquiry. So before I jump into defense of attack, I ask, "Help me understand. . ." and try and get more info. :-)
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Old 10-16-2012, 02:49 PM
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Old 10-16-2012, 02:51 PM
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I just like I hear what you're saying, but...
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Old 10-16-2012, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by MycoolFitz View Post
I just like I hear what you're saying, but...
How about, "I like what you are saying, AND, have you thought about. . ." Keeps the conversation going. . .

If you don't like what they are saying, respectively disagree, and respect the person, even if you don't agree what they are saying.

I have to say that this community is very good at constructive dialogue. Sometimes we get tired or frustrated, and type before we think.

Enough out of me. :-)
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Old 10-16-2012, 05:10 PM
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I aggree IndaMiracle. "Yeah, but" makes a convenient excuse. But it also seems to be a good way to soften disagreement. Several of the phrases suggested here essentially start that way. Since we're all recovering alcoholics/addicts, it ought to come naturally to us :-) Thanks for getting things back on track Dee.
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Old 10-16-2012, 05:27 PM
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I was just going with the flow of the topic and I like what you are saying but...
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