fathers day
fathers day
Am really struggling at the moment today is fathers day its the first since my dad died.
I feel upset and wishing that i had some whiskey so i can just get drunk and not think about my dad
Today i lit a candle for him its still burning going keep it burning until midnight tonight
All i can think about is the way he died ( he killed himself ) and the fact i want to get drunk
the last time i had a drink was in feb
i feel i really need it right now
I also feel suicidal but am dealing with that side of things
I feel upset and wishing that i had some whiskey so i can just get drunk and not think about my dad
Today i lit a candle for him its still burning going keep it burning until midnight tonight
All i can think about is the way he died ( he killed himself ) and the fact i want to get drunk
the last time i had a drink was in feb
i feel i really need it right now
I also feel suicidal but am dealing with that side of things
I'm really sorry for your loss DA.
I don't think drinking helps grief though - it actually stops us from dealing with grief I think and keeps us in a kind of holding pattern.
If you think you need help, maybe grief counselling like hypo suggested is a good idea?
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I don't think drinking helps grief though - it actually stops us from dealing with grief I think and keeps us in a kind of holding pattern.
If you think you need help, maybe grief counselling like hypo suggested is a good idea?
D
Sorry about your loss Dark Asylum. This time of year isn't easy.
My Dad died six years ago. There's so many things I wish I'd been able to say to him. I can't help feeling that he's watching over me, and that he's happy I'm finally getting help after (cough) years.
My Dad died six years ago. There's so many things I wish I'd been able to say to him. I can't help feeling that he's watching over me, and that he's happy I'm finally getting help after (cough) years.
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DA, really sorry to hear about your dad's death, and in that way.
Try to keep up the not drinking, your dad would want you to look out for yourself. I drunk a lot after my mum's death and as Dee said it delays it all. I lost my dad many years ago and was struggling a bit today.
Thinking of you, I hope you can get some counselling with someone (if you think useful).
Burning the candle is a lovely way to honour him.
Try to keep up the not drinking, your dad would want you to look out for yourself. I drunk a lot after my mum's death and as Dee said it delays it all. I lost my dad many years ago and was struggling a bit today.
Thinking of you, I hope you can get some counselling with someone (if you think useful).
Burning the candle is a lovely way to honour him.
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