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Old 02-01-2012, 09:11 PM
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There has to be something else I can try.

A little bit about myself. I have been abusing alcohol for close to 14yrs. There is no rationalising it because at this point i cant take the 3 days of hell i endure every week from binge drinking on weekends. About a year ago went for counseling, attended AA meetings (eventually left), tried anti-anxiety and depression pills to deal with my mental health issues which my doctor recommended as a way to start recovery. Eventually ended up stopping the meds because the sexual side effects were too hard to bear.

Long story short, I live in Des Moines maybe getting a sponsor might work for the days that you feel you just want one.

Any suggestions would be greatly helpful.
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Old 02-01-2012, 09:39 PM
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Old 02-01-2012, 09:48 PM
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Welcome mujo! You will find tons of support here. Keep reading and posting.

God bless.
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Old 02-01-2012, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by mujolibo View Post
Long story short, I live in Des Moines maybe getting a sponsor might work for the days that you feel you just want one.
Not exactly going to any lengths...Do you know what a sponsor is for?...Taking you through the program of recovery...The 12 steps. If you want this to work....I would hope the days you just want one would be everyday. Good luck.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:00 PM
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Welcome mujolibo

It's not immediately clear to me whether you're looking for an alternative to AA or a kind of sponsor, but our Secular Connections forum has a range of reading and links on alternatives to 12 step recovery

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Old 02-01-2012, 11:17 PM
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Being prepared to stop drinking and take whatever comes on an unconditional basis is an important step. It took me many years to get to the point where I was ready to do that.

I don't go to AA but the Big Book really helped me to understand the strength that comes from surrender.
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Old 02-02-2012, 06:37 AM
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Old 02-02-2012, 08:22 AM
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I hope you find something that works for you.

I don't have a sponsor, but I do find a lot of support here at SR.
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