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Old 12-31-2010, 07:02 AM
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New Years Day

Well, it is 1am on New Years Day where I am, and I am happy to say that I am happy to be sober. My first sober New Years Eve for 22 years.

In 3 days time, I will have 9 months sobriety but I thought this was a perfect day to do some reflecting.

This journey has taught me so much and I am so grateful to be in recovery. I am learning so much about myself, and there are many people that have been involved in helping that learning process. This help has come in the form of negativity and positivity. I will explain.

Through negativity,when faced with a situation that normally would cause me stress, I am learning to take a deep breath and not let it get to me. What others think of me is of no consequence to me and all I can do is live my life as best I can. When face with negativity I am learning to let it go if possible, and deal with the stuff I can. Believe me, that is huge for me.

The positive help has come in the form of the many friends I have made here on SR and also the new ones to come. It's all about helping each other through this recovery journey, and we all come here with different experiences and knowledge.

Well before I start rambling too much, let me finish by saying sobriety is not a struggle anymore, in fact it has not been for some time. Sobriety is not the end of the world, in fact it is just the beginning of a new life and isn't it wonderful that we get that opportunity?

One day at a time...I cannot change the past, but I can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:10 AM
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Well, let you be the first person I get to wish a Happy New Year to then!

I hadn't even realized till now, tonight is the Eve.

I may make some AA Marathon meetings later this evening.
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:15 AM
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Happy new year!! Nice one on your sober time and thanks for a great post too!!!!

Peace
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:19 AM
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Happy New Year!
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:35 AM
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I cannot change the past, but I can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
man~o~man............you said it there!
that reminder in itself is a great day starter. (thank you!)

Happy New years to you!!
and congrat's on your 9 months !!!
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Old 12-31-2010, 07:35 AM
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OMG! HOW IS IT YOU ARE POSTING FROM THE FUTURE?!

Congrats on a sober New Year's, Ozgoddess. And thanks for that post, that was very well spoken and just the sort of thing all of us could do well to reflect upon this time of year.

Hope for still better things coming your way in 2011.
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Happy New Year, OG! This will be my first sober NYE in quite some time, so I'm very much looking forward to it. Hope you have a wonderful 2011!
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Happy New Year, glad you are sober.
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Old 12-31-2010, 09:55 AM
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Great post! Congratulations and Happy New Year!
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Old 12-31-2010, 09:59 AM
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Thanks for this inspiration.
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Old 12-31-2010, 10:24 AM
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Awesome post Oz, love it. Happy new year! And happy almost 9 months!
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Old 12-31-2010, 10:43 AM
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So the flux capacitor worked... GREAT SCOTT! Happy New Year. I'm inspired to be amongst those so empowered with self-control, as to walk away from a past of addiction.
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great post - Happy New Years OzG

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Love it Oz......much huggs hon and all the best as we embark on amazing new year!!

Happy New Years
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Happy New Year, OzGoddess!

Congratulations on 9 months of sobriety. Learning to not pay attention to what other people thought was huge for me too.
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Old 12-31-2010, 02:54 PM
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Thank you for the post.

I'm struggling with not drinking tonight for New Year's but now I have hope that I can stay sober like you did.
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Old 12-31-2010, 03:17 PM
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Fabulous post and great job on your 9 months ozgoddess!!!!

Happy New Year as well. 2011 will be an excellent year!
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Thanks for the terrific post and Happy New Year! See you in 2011 in a few hours
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