Suspicious

please dont give me advice on how unhealthy it is to be searching... i already know i am on the cusp of crazy with my detective skills.

i just found half of a 30 mg roxicodone in ah's pocket so my fears of when he would make the jump from hydrocode to oxycodone just came true. happy valentines day to me!

suki44883

Okay, it is what it is. What now?

Impurrfect

No lecture from me - just a hug and a prayer that you can do what you need, to take care of you.

Hugs and prayers!

Amy

Teggie

I'm sorry to hear that. You know what that means.

Time for some good boundries. What is going to be unacceptable to you?

Hugs,
Teggie

sofacat

I'm sorry Suspicious. That's a real big bummer for him. And I'm sure a let down for you as well.

You won't get any lectures from me on snooping....
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

It's what you're gonna do today that will make all the difference.

Big hugs from me, and on this Valentines Day....Love yourself first.

outtolunch

Addiction is progressive.

Callie

Sorry suspicious. Now you know. Now you can make decisions. You know addiction IS progressive. Hugs to you and I'm sorry.

coffeedrinker

so sorry. sometimes it does feel better to really know than to stay in guessing-land.

any plans?

mooselips

I've been a very good detective in the past, and the mysteries I've solved hurt my heart.

But once your suspicions are confirmed, you need to decide what you want to do with the information you've discovered.

Where do you want your life to be next year?



Hugs and hugs....

Spiritual Seeker

((((suspicious))) You chose Your User Name here, just about a year ago.

So you've been in this state for at least a yr. Suspicions confirmed.

What now ?

Suspicious

thanks guys. i have 'known' for a while. i have tried to tell him how tolerance guarantees that this is progressive. he still denies any kind of addiction or even just occasional abuse. i have working on getting a steady income for myself and the means to get a place for me and 3 kids. my plan is the same today as it was a week ago... only difference is now i know FOR SURE.

bluebelle

I'm sorry to hear this. Good just working on getting yourself a steady income. Take care!

Suspicious

This time next year i do not want the first thought that goes thru my head upon waking to something about his addiction. I do not want to be dealing and worrying about HIS addiction. I know that I am not designed to be able to detach from his addiction while still in the same house. So I know that means that either he will have gotten into treatment or I will have left him to it.

I really appreciate the way your ? was worded, "to be next year"... makes me feel like I can take a breath and let myself work at a steady pace towards my goal instead of rushing the situation just to be able to say I did something about this. I want to be doing the next RIGHT thing not just the next thing.

mooselips

The best part in all of this is
little by little,
step by step
you can do this!