No surprise here
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No surprise here
I just learned how to text, I know I am behind the times. But AH sent me a text yesterday saying thanks for some smokes I had let him have so he would stop coming over and asking for them.
I have gone no contact except for business related stuff or our son.
So I figured that would be a good way to communicate those things since I don't want to talk to him directly.
So I replied back today that the back lot needed the junk cleared out and unless he was going to be gone to rehab then he needed to do it or I was going to hire someone to do it and haul all his crap away. I then stated that I would not discuss anything of a personal or relationship matter with him until he completed rehab and was working an active recovery, I said that even then, I wasn't sure because of all the issues and all the damage that has been done.
I felt that needed to be said because I hadn't formally made my position clear on that. So now he is aware of my stand on things.
So I get a text back that only said "Yeah, the kids have been good at spreading the junk around"
LOL, I guess I can read between the lines on that one.
So not surprised.
Hugs,
Teggie
I have gone no contact except for business related stuff or our son.
So I figured that would be a good way to communicate those things since I don't want to talk to him directly.
So I replied back today that the back lot needed the junk cleared out and unless he was going to be gone to rehab then he needed to do it or I was going to hire someone to do it and haul all his crap away. I then stated that I would not discuss anything of a personal or relationship matter with him until he completed rehab and was working an active recovery, I said that even then, I wasn't sure because of all the issues and all the damage that has been done.
I felt that needed to be said because I hadn't formally made my position clear on that. So now he is aware of my stand on things.
So I get a text back that only said "Yeah, the kids have been good at spreading the junk around"
LOL, I guess I can read between the lines on that one.
So not surprised.
Hugs,
Teggie
he sounds a little like my ex - maybe if you don't talk about it, or even acknowledge it, "it" isn't really true!
i say good that you told him what you did. and yeah, isn't it easier to text it?!
i say good that you told him what you did. and yeah, isn't it easier to text it?!
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