cassandra2

"our codependency can lead us to believe that everything is a crisis and MUST be resolved IMMEDIATELY and that the outcome absolutely HAS to fall in line with OUR expectations. and the more resistant that person place or thing is to doing it OUR way, the more powerful our NEED to control the outcome grows."

I was going through the F&F of alcoholics and came across the nugget of info that Anvil had posted...

I would really like to know where you learned this? Where did this come from? Dont remember reading about it in CODE No More....

This describes ME EXACTLY.....And until today I had no idea that that too stems from codependency....

Anvil could you elaborate more on this? I really would like to change this about myself because sometimes it is ALL consuming and I feel sorry for whoever or whatever this is directed at from me because its annoying.

Thanks in advance.