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im 43 and i got to stop this addiction.
now do i get patches...or inhaler thingys.....lozengers.
or the dreaded cold turkey.
whats your take?......how did the majority stop?..
40 a day ish........since 15..
any newcomers got some advice?.....
i spend long periods in the truck smoking.......what am i gonna do instead?
now do i get patches...or inhaler thingys.....lozengers.
or the dreaded cold turkey.
whats your take?......how did the majority stop?..
40 a day ish........since 15..
any newcomers got some advice?.....
i spend long periods in the truck smoking.......what am i gonna do instead?
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Join Date: Sep 2009
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I did best with the patch. Chantix made me a madman, I think due to the fact that it messes with the neurotransmitters as do the antidepressants I was on. Not a good mix. Your mileage may vary. I can say that the Chantix worked like a charm, I just couldn't handle the emotional effects.
Once you get through the nicotine withdrawals, the most difficult challenges are dealing with the oral fixation, and/or the feeling of having that cigarette in you hand. These issues weren't that huge for me. I've heard that you can cut a stick pen down to the length of a cigarette, and hold that between your fingers if you feel the need. Never tried that method so I can't vouch for its effectiveness. Gum and hard candy can be of some help as well.
Anyway, after the Chantix debacle I'm back to smoking. So I really have to hand it to you for tackling this addiction. It's a tough one. I don't think I'm going to be able to quit until I can get my issues with beer and anxiety/depression better sorted out.
Godspeed!
Once you get through the nicotine withdrawals, the most difficult challenges are dealing with the oral fixation, and/or the feeling of having that cigarette in you hand. These issues weren't that huge for me. I've heard that you can cut a stick pen down to the length of a cigarette, and hold that between your fingers if you feel the need. Never tried that method so I can't vouch for its effectiveness. Gum and hard candy can be of some help as well.
Anyway, after the Chantix debacle I'm back to smoking. So I really have to hand it to you for tackling this addiction. It's a tough one. I don't think I'm going to be able to quit until I can get my issues with beer and anxiety/depression better sorted out.
Godspeed!
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Actually,
I've had my best luck quitting in the signs
best days to stop smoking
September: 4th, 7th, 8th, 11th, 12th, 15th, 16th, 17th
October: 4th, 5th, 8th, 9th, 13th, 14th, 15th, 16th, 17th
November: 2nd
I just have to keep my daily routine like I do for AA though or, I pick up the habit again by being around certain people , places or things
I've had my best luck quitting in the signs
best days to stop smoking
September: 4th, 7th, 8th, 11th, 12th, 15th, 16th, 17th
October: 4th, 5th, 8th, 9th, 13th, 14th, 15th, 16th, 17th
November: 2nd
I just have to keep my daily routine like I do for AA though or, I pick up the habit again by being around certain people , places or things
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: The Great Lakes State
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When I quit ten years ago, the only options were the patch, the gum and that one anti-depressant (I forget the name). I tried them all. (BTW, I had smoked for 17 years and was up to about a pack 3/4 a day.)
I reacted badly to the anti-depressant, but that was just me. My MIL quit successfully using it.
The gum was ok, but it gave me a really upset stomach. It also gave me more freedom to cheat because I didn't have to wait all that long after having the gum if I wanted to smoke.
So, I tried the patch and that's what ended up working for me. The cravings, even with the patch, were pretty strong the first few days. After that, there were none until I stepped down to the next lower dosage, and even then, those weren't bad at all. I have very sensitive skin, and was worried about reacting to the patch, but I only had the normal redness where the patch was which went away soon after it was removed. I wore it all night too, and did not have problems with nightmares. I understand that some people did.
I used to smoke menthol, so I was also addicted to the mint. I chewed mint sugar-free bubble gum (I have no idea if they even make it any more) like it was going out of style. Also, Altoids (a type of mint candy) became my friend. To this day, I still have them in my car and often pop a couple in my mouth when I start my drive to work.
If weight gain is an issue for you, be very careful with your diet and exercise. I gained 25 pounds that I am still carrying around. Blah.
As for the behavioral part, same as quitting drinking. Remove yourself from others who smoke if at all possible (I couldn't - hubby still smokes). Replace the smoking habit with other habits. Talk yourself through the cravings and urges to smoke using positive thoughts etc.
Good luck! Nicotine is one nasty, physically addicting drug. I couldn't have done it cold turkey, but then again I am a wimp.
I reacted badly to the anti-depressant, but that was just me. My MIL quit successfully using it.
The gum was ok, but it gave me a really upset stomach. It also gave me more freedom to cheat because I didn't have to wait all that long after having the gum if I wanted to smoke.
So, I tried the patch and that's what ended up working for me. The cravings, even with the patch, were pretty strong the first few days. After that, there were none until I stepped down to the next lower dosage, and even then, those weren't bad at all. I have very sensitive skin, and was worried about reacting to the patch, but I only had the normal redness where the patch was which went away soon after it was removed. I wore it all night too, and did not have problems with nightmares. I understand that some people did.
I used to smoke menthol, so I was also addicted to the mint. I chewed mint sugar-free bubble gum (I have no idea if they even make it any more) like it was going out of style. Also, Altoids (a type of mint candy) became my friend. To this day, I still have them in my car and often pop a couple in my mouth when I start my drive to work.
If weight gain is an issue for you, be very careful with your diet and exercise. I gained 25 pounds that I am still carrying around. Blah.
As for the behavioral part, same as quitting drinking. Remove yourself from others who smoke if at all possible (I couldn't - hubby still smokes). Replace the smoking habit with other habits. Talk yourself through the cravings and urges to smoke using positive thoughts etc.
Good luck! Nicotine is one nasty, physically addicting drug. I couldn't have done it cold turkey, but then again I am a wimp.
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Location: Los Angeles, CA
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Originally Posted by PurpleCat 
When I quit ten years ago, the only options were the patch, the gum and that one anti-depressant (I forget the name). I tried them all. (BTW, I had smoked for 17 years and was up to about a pack 3/4 a day.)
I reacted badly to the anti-depressant, but that was just me. My MIL quit successfully using it.
The gum was ok, but it gave me a really upset stomach. It also gave me more freedom to cheat because I didn't have to wait all that long after having the gum if I wanted to smoke.
So, I tried the patch and that's what ended up working for me. The cravings, even with the patch, were pretty strong the first few days. After that, there were none until I stepped down to the next lower dosage, and even then, those weren't bad at all. I have very sensitive skin, and was worried about reacting to the patch, but I only had the normal redness where the patch was which went away soon after it was removed. I wore it all night too, and did not have problems with nightmares. I understand that some people did.
I used to smoke menthol, so I was also addicted to the mint. I chewed mint sugar-free bubble gum (I have no idea if they even make it any more) like it was going out of style. Also, Altoids (a type of mint candy) became my friend. To this day, I still have them in my car and often pop a couple in my mouth when I start my drive to work.
If weight gain is an issue for you, be very careful with your diet and exercise. I gained 25 pounds that I am still carrying around. Blah.
As for the behavioral part, same as quitting drinking. Remove yourself from others who smoke if at all possible (I couldn't - hubby still smokes). Replace the smoking habit with other habits. Talk yourself through the cravings and urges to smoke using positive thoughts etc.
Good luck! Nicotine is one nasty, physically addicting drug. I couldn't have done it cold turkey, but then again I am a wimp.
I reacted badly to the anti-depressant, but that was just me. My MIL quit successfully using it.
The gum was ok, but it gave me a really upset stomach. It also gave me more freedom to cheat because I didn't have to wait all that long after having the gum if I wanted to smoke.
So, I tried the patch and that's what ended up working for me. The cravings, even with the patch, were pretty strong the first few days. After that, there were none until I stepped down to the next lower dosage, and even then, those weren't bad at all. I have very sensitive skin, and was worried about reacting to the patch, but I only had the normal redness where the patch was which went away soon after it was removed. I wore it all night too, and did not have problems with nightmares. I understand that some people did.
I used to smoke menthol, so I was also addicted to the mint. I chewed mint sugar-free bubble gum (I have no idea if they even make it any more) like it was going out of style. Also, Altoids (a type of mint candy) became my friend. To this day, I still have them in my car and often pop a couple in my mouth when I start my drive to work.
If weight gain is an issue for you, be very careful with your diet and exercise. I gained 25 pounds that I am still carrying around. Blah.
As for the behavioral part, same as quitting drinking. Remove yourself from others who smoke if at all possible (I couldn't - hubby still smokes). Replace the smoking habit with other habits. Talk yourself through the cravings and urges to smoke using positive thoughts etc.
Good luck! Nicotine is one nasty, physically addicting drug. I couldn't have done it cold turkey, but then again I am a wimp.
Regarding the 25 pounds of weight gain, while we may not feel good about it, the stress on the body from that is nowhere near the stress that smoking puts on the heart, lungs and other parts of the body. The benefits of quiting smoking regardless if we gain weight far exceed the alternative of remaining a smoker.
Congrats again!
p.s. anyone who shares with a public forum and works hard to fight the grips of a very addictive drug is no wimp!
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Cold turkey IS NOT AS BAD AS PEOPLE THINK IT IS! It does not hurt at all, there is no physical pain. It is all in your head and if you truly WANT to stop you can do it cold turkey.
I found that Allen Carr's book "the easy way to quit smoking" to help me tremendously. When I had my last cigarette I knew it was my LAST cigarette.
I have been feeling progressively better with each passing day. There was no need for anything but a few words of encouragement by Mr. Carr.
If you want to try it send me a P.M., I will send you the link to the book.
I found that Allen Carr's book "the easy way to quit smoking" to help me tremendously. When I had my last cigarette I knew it was my LAST cigarette.
I have been feeling progressively better with each passing day. There was no need for anything but a few words of encouragement by Mr. Carr.
If you want to try it send me a P.M., I will send you the link to the book.
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Originally Posted by trucker
im 43 and i got to stop this addiction.
now do i get patches...or inhaler thingys.....lozengers.
or the dreaded cold turkey.
whats your take?......how did the majority stop?..
40 a day ish........since 15..
any newcomers got some advice?.....
i spend long periods in the truck smoking.......what am i gonna do instead?
now do i get patches...or inhaler thingys.....lozengers.
or the dreaded cold turkey.
whats your take?......how did the majority stop?..
40 a day ish........since 15..
any newcomers got some advice?.....
i spend long periods in the truck smoking.......what am i gonna do instead?
Great article from a old time trucker who quit cold turkey a few years ago at age 60! related information is here: Lose, don't excuse - Truckers News
Another good little source of information is here related to truckers in general regarding smoking: How Any Trucker Can Finally Stop Smoking : The Trucker Blog
Congrats on taking the steps to retake control of your life from tobacco!!
Not only are you going to feel better health wise but your going to have about 14 dollars a day in extra money! Thats almost $100 a week extra cash, $400 a month! Almost $5,000 (five thousand!!!!!) EXTRA DOLLARS A YEAR! AWESOME! Thats a nice vacation each year or a water craft vehicle or who knows what else!
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Originally Posted by CAPTAINZING2000
I just have to keep my daily routine like I do for AA though or, I pick up the habit again by being around certain people , places or things
I still get the cravings once in awhile, that's when I use the principles and Steps I've learned in the program, and I come to places like Sober Recovery for inspiration and support.
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ive been sober for almost 18 months and have tried to seriously quit about 5 times. For me, its the same as stopping drinking and using. When i try to stop smoking, i start the same mental process as i did getting sober. its very hard cause it does bring me back to that scary place in a way. i made it 23 days and started smoking again. the obsession to smoke, was just not going away. i dont know. i didnt get sober the first time i tried, so im gonna just keep at it. good luck
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Originally Posted by soberat23
ive been sober for almost 18 months and have tried to seriously quit about 5 times. For me, its the same as stopping drinking and using. When i try to stop smoking, i start the same mental process as i did getting sober. its very hard cause it does bring me back to that scary place in a way. i made it 23 days and started smoking again. the obsession to smoke, was just not going away. i dont know. i didnt get sober the first time i tried, so im gonna just keep at it. good luck
Fortunately we no longer have the excuse of ignorance to the dangers and addictiveness of Cigarettes and nicotine.
I have a great link that has really helped me give up smoking/nicotine, I hope it helps you as much as it helped me.
"Glory Week"
The First 72 Hours - Navigating Withdrawal - - Understanding Dependency, Its Costs & Recovery - Freedom from Nicotine -
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Originally Posted by soberat23
ive been sober for almost 18 months and have tried to seriously quit about 5 times. For me, its the same as stopping drinking and using. When i try to stop smoking, i start the same mental process as i did getting sober. its very hard cause it does bring me back to that scary place in a way. i made it 23 days and started smoking again. the obsession to smoke, was just not going away. i dont know. i didnt get sober the first time i tried, so im gonna just keep at it. good luck
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I have tried everything, the patch where I would last a total of 10 days,
Welbutrin where I would last a few days
Chantix where I lasted 3 months, but once off it, I started smoking again.
Now the gum. Amazingly the gum works for me.
I am at 52 days. I smoked for 35 years.
You can quit if you really want to.
Welbutrin where I would last a few days
Chantix where I lasted 3 months, but once off it, I started smoking again.
Now the gum. Amazingly the gum works for me.
I am at 52 days. I smoked for 35 years.
You can quit if you really want to.
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