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02-27-2009, 12:39 PM

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LucyA

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So sad

A couple of hours ago my little brother’s journey ended. He was 38 years old and he died from a heart attack. I miss him so much already.

02-27-2009, 12:42 PM

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Freedom1990

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I am so so sorry for your loss, Lucy. :ghug :ghug

02-27-2009, 12:43 PM

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milenafk2009

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Lucy, so, so sorry for your loss. Please do take care of yourself during this painful time.

02-27-2009, 01:12 PM

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Live

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So sorry, please accept my sympathies

02-27-2009, 01:15 PM

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timetogo

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My heart goes out to you Lucy. Try to take care of yourself during this very difficult time.

I'm thinking of you and your family
Laurie

02-27-2009, 01:15 PM

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SoberforME

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I'm sorry Lucy.

I lost my oldest friend this week at 38 as well.

It's so so hard when they are so young.

I'm crying with you today.

((LUCY))

02-27-2009, 01:22 PM

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gns

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I am so sorry Lucy. My heart goes out to you and your family.

02-27-2009, 01:24 PM

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lisa t

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my thoughts & prayers are with you & your family Lucy...so sorry for your loss.

Lisa

02-27-2009, 01:33 PM

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Chrysalis123

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I am so sorry for your loss. How is Joe handling this? I am praying for you.

02-27-2009, 01:47 PM

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Impurrfect

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((((Lucy))))

oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I know this has been such a long struggle for you and your family. Please know that I am sending you, Joe and the rest of your family lots and lots of hugs and prayers. I am crying with you...this just breaks my heart.

Amy

02-27-2009, 01:55 PM

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Tally

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I've followed your story for a while now and I'm so sorry for you, Joe and the rest of your family. xx

02-27-2009, 02:02 PM

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LucyA

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Joe doesn't know yet. He went to stay with his mums family in Wales earlier today, they planned to go to football on Sunday. I'm going to go tomorrow to tell him, it's going to be one of the hardest things I've ever done. I would have gone tonight, but I think it's better to let him sleep and tell him in the morning. He had a good time with his dad at my mums house yesterday, I'm happy their last time together was good, because it hasn't always been that way. I'm going to try to adopt Joe now, that wasn't the way I'd hope things would work out ( for Joe's sake) but I hope it's the best way from now on.

02-27-2009, 02:35 PM

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bookwyrm

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I'm so sorry. Take care. :ghug3

02-27-2009, 02:39 PM

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GiveLove

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Lucy,

I'm so sorry for this whole thing -- for your sadness, for the poor choices your brother made, for Joe's loss of a father (which actually happened long ago, but you know what I mean).

Hugs to you to get through the next few days and weeks. I know your heart is heavy. I am glad his suffering is over.

02-27-2009, 02:41 PM

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Done_With_It

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Oh Lucy, I am so sorry....... There are no words, but my heart is with you during this time.
My thoughts and prayers with Joe as well.......

******.....}}}}

02-27-2009, 02:44 PM

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Barbara52

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You and your family will be in my prayers. Especially Joe.

02-27-2009, 02:46 PM

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Bernadette

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Oh Lucy-- my heart goes out to you and Joe---you're in my thoughts and prayers...
peace,
b.

02-27-2009, 03:12 PM

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Mr B

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Oh, Lucy, I'm so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself.

Mr B.

02-27-2009, 03:18 PM

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LucyA

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Thanks to you all.
I know he's free now, that gives me some comfort, I hated to see him and know he was suffering so much. I saw him tonight and held his hand and told him how much I loved him, he looked so peaceful. I just wish I'd done it yesterday.