It is finished
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It is finished
Just a quick line to let ya'll know that It is over. The divorce was finalized this morning at 9:32. I was very nervous and I have some "unwinding" to do, but for the most part I am relieved that it is finally over. I know someone said that it is a piece of paper, but when they handed me those papers this morning, they gave me my life back. It was like they were giving me my wings to fly again. Today I am a stronger and better person, I am a better daughter and most importantly I am a better mother to my children than I was 6 months ago. You guy have all helped me more that you will know. I am so glad that I found ya'll. Thanks so much for all the support and prayers.
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Congratulations, LOH. I know firsthand that divorce is a very painful process but those of us who endure, come out stronger and ready to face the world.
So again...CONGRATULATIONS on the first day of your brand new life!
So again...CONGRATULATIONS on the first day of your brand new life!
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Last night when I got home, I had several messages waiting for me, friends and family and my pastor letting me know they were thinking of me. My mom had a nice supper cooked for me and for the first time in a long time, I slept all night long. I am sure I was just tired from the emotions of the day, but I never sleep.
The AXH's boss called this morning and wanted me to tell him to call her, he has not been at work for several weeks and they want him to turn in his uniforms that he no longer has a job. I told her that she would have to get in touch with him and gave her the only number I had. I ask her not to call me back.
I am so glad I don't have to worry about any of that anymore. Several weeks I would have called him and questioned him about this. Not today. I feel good today. Excited about my future. I am going this weekend to look at homes for the kids and me. I am excited.
He does not know that the divorce was finalized yesteray, I am waiting for that phone call when he finally gets the papers in the mail!!!
The AXH's boss called this morning and wanted me to tell him to call her, he has not been at work for several weeks and they want him to turn in his uniforms that he no longer has a job. I told her that she would have to get in touch with him and gave her the only number I had. I ask her not to call me back.
I am so glad I don't have to worry about any of that anymore. Several weeks I would have called him and questioned him about this. Not today. I feel good today. Excited about my future. I am going this weekend to look at homes for the kids and me. I am excited.
He does not know that the divorce was finalized yesteray, I am waiting for that phone call when he finally gets the papers in the mail!!!
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Congratulations..... and I'm sorry.
That's what I felt like when mine was finalized. I was happy, relieved, and a bit sad too. And guess what? They are all just feelings, and I was able to feel all of them. You can too!
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That's what I felt like when mine was finalized. I was happy, relieved, and a bit sad too. And guess what? They are all just feelings, and I was able to feel all of them. You can too!
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Originally Posted by denny57 
I'm very happy for you and your family, Life. I hope you'll be able to stick around some and share your story with those still struggling. I know how much inspiration I got from it.
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