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Old 03-21-2018, 06:17 AM
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The three R's of recovery

We all heard of the three R's of school, right? Reading, writing and arithmetic.

Without quite realizing it, I have my three R's of recovery:

1- Reading (positive stories of folks overcoming mental health issues and/or addiction... also participating here on SR)

2- Writing (I always kept a journal, but I've stepped up the game and started a *very* rough draft of my memoirs)

3- Running/riding (or any physical movement/exercise at that. My go to is cycling, hiking and some running)

Feel free to comment and/or share what works for you.
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I know for me running kinda is a multi-purpose solution. For one I like it so much i'd hate to drink the night before and ruin the following days run because i'm battleing a hangover. But also when i'm feeling all frustrated and anxious etc.. i always feel a lot better after a run. and since I feel all frustrated and anxious on a daily basis. Running has to happen on a daily basis. and since it happens on a daily basis there just isnt room for drinking in the equation.

So in quite a few ways something as simple as daily running for me really keeps me in check.
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Old 03-21-2018, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by steve-in-kville View Post
We all heard of the three R's of school, right? Reading, writing and arithmetic.

Without quite realizing it, I have my three R's of recovery:

1- Reading (positive stories of folks overcoming mental health issues and/or addiction... also participating here on SR)

2- Writing (I always kept a journal, but I've stepped up the game and started a *very* rough draft of my memoirs)

3- Running/riding (or any physical movement/exercise at that. My go to is cycling, hiking and some running)

Feel free to comment and/or share what works for you.
Excellent! Three empowering high value behaviors that replace the quick fix or mood changer of drugs.
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Ok so I must be the only one who hasn't heard of the three Rs. But how does one ge three Rs out of reading writing and arithmetic ? I'm obviously missing the point.

There's the 3 Rs of recycling...reduce, reuse, recycle.....that makes sense.

Anyway.....let's see so the 3 Rs in recovery for me right now are accept, ownership and shut up. It's good those didn't actually need to start with R
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Old 03-22-2018, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Frickaflip233 View Post
Ok so I must be the only one who hasn't heard of the three Rs. But how does one ge three Rs out of reading writing and arithmetic ? I'm obviously missing the point.

There's the 3 Rs of recycling...reduce, reuse, recycle.....that makes sense.
Not sure what area you're from, but maybe its an old school Pennsylvania Dutch thing.... beyond my grandparents, I haven't heard it from anyone else!!
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Old 03-24-2018, 12:25 AM
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The 3 Rs .. I like it , a plan a way forward ...
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Great post Steve, thanks man!!
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