Failure again
I am not sure success or failure is the right way to look at it. You moved 35 days in the right direction. That's 35 days you DIDN'T drink. Get back on the horse. You can do it. I think recovery is a work in progress, rather than a destination.
relapse is part of the process - this is a journey about learning about yourself not just giving up the booze. Therefore these slips if they help provide resolve are parts of the process. You may want to rethink about what led to this - usually its not the things you mentioned and happens well in advance but that was just my experience. Perhaps adjusting your program.
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Hi. As stated alcohol is part of the problem and many don't, for various reasons, usually fear, work on the reasons we drank and keep relapsing. I know all about it. Fears kept me captive for too long and I drank to escape them. After a drink or two my attitude changed to "I don't care" and lasted till I became fearful again. I needed some time to sober up and confront my triggers. Over the years most have been turned into manageable concerns because I don't drink any more and think of others as "how important is it" and manage from there.
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Well said. It is a process and everyone's journey will be different but we are all moving in the right direction even with setbacks. We learn and move on.
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I agree with this 100% So long as you learn something new about your triggers then it is feedback, not failure!
Hi. As stated alcohol is part of the problem and many don't, for various reasons, usually fear, work on the reasons we drank and keep relapsing. I know all about it. Fears kept me captive for too long and I drank to escape them. After a drink or two my attitude changed to "I don't care" and lasted till I became fearful again. I needed some time to sober up and confront my triggers. Over the years most have been turned into manageable concerns because I don't drink any more and think of others as "how important is it" and manage from there.
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This is a good point, the mental side of the hangover I can take to a point, what gets me is the physical, the spots, the bloat. I train five times a week at the gym and am body image conscious. I saw a rugby player on TV drinking, he was still in great shape, he lives a normal life, can I? Of course you can said the stupid alcoholic part of my brain, from that moment on I felt helpless to stop the inevitable drink
The next time I see some triggers I'll have to adapt to deal with the situation, or never move home again ha ha
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