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Old 04-09-2010, 03:25 PM
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I Have 50-60 Drinks Per Week On Average...

So why do I keep on telling myself that 'everything is under control,' and 'I can cut back at any time'??
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Old 04-09-2010, 03:27 PM
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The above question might sound dumb, but I know I'm not a stupid person but for some reason I can always seem to rationalize my drinking.
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Old 04-09-2010, 04:41 PM
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Alcoholics specialize in Self Justification. Not saying that you're an alcoholic though.
Try limiting it to 3-4 a day and see what happens.
If you can then good for you.
If you can't then you should read what is posted here from "Under the Influence" and take it from there.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
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Old 04-09-2010, 07:53 PM
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I did something like that for 30 years.
I told myself I'll just quit one of these days, as simple as taking a different route to work. Of course I was kidding myself, and I knew it. But the fact is, I couldn't put more than a couple days of sobriety together. I was drinking about a 12 pack of beer a day.
One of these days is not a day of the week, and I finally quit.
I was fed up with never being able to do anything after 5 oclock , but get drunk.
Where alcohol is involved, things can become very skewed. 2+2=4 until you throw in booze. Then 2+2 = everything BUT 4. No matter how you add it up, it won't =4. Thats the way I felt when trying to stop. In the morning it seemed so simple. But in the afternoon, such a simple thing became so impossible.
I wish you the best.
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Old 04-10-2010, 02:52 AM
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Think about this Mark.....
hat is moderation?

According to the U.S. Center for Disease Control

Moderate drinking is no more than
2 drinks a day for men..1 for women

They consider a drink to be
12 oz. of beer..5 oz. of wine...1 1/2 oz of liquor.

Your body and mind processes all 3 toxins equally
so drinking only wine or only liquor or only beer
or mixing them is of no importance.
They all do the same damage.
You are way past the moderation point.....
I certainly hope you will soon quit pouring
toxins ...yes alcohol is...into your mind and body.
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That's a lot of drinkin'!! Only you can decide when and if you want to stop..

I rationalized drinking almost to the grave, very quickly. Thank goodness I got my act together, got help, and got sober for good!
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Old 04-11-2010, 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Pinkcuda View Post
Alcoholics specialize in Self Justification. Not saying that you're an alcoholic though.
Try limiting it to 3-4 a day and see what happens.
If you can then good for you.
If you can't then you should read what is posted here from "Under the Influence" and take it from there.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
Thanks; very useful info there.
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Old 04-11-2010, 02:41 PM
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Thanks all for your advice/insight.
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