View Poll Results: How many face to face meetings do you go to?
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POLL: How many meetings do you go to?
Home Group (discussion): every week
BB meeting: almost every week
10PM late night meeting (discussion): hit or miss (it meets nightly)
When I was new I probably averaged 4-5 meetings a week and it still fluctuates today (after 4 years). I voted 1-2 times a week but I would have voted 2-3 times a week if it were an option. Twice a week is the norm, but 3-4 times a week is not out of the ordinary (especially if I am working with a newcomer). I never miss my home group as I usually have some type of commitment to the group every week (set up, chair, etc), and it would take something really important to get me to miss my BB meeting.
BTW when I was new I loved the 10PM "last call" meeting. It is really laid back with the lights off and the room is lit with candles. It really helped when I couldn't get my mind to shut down at the end of the day. I still like to go occasionally when I'm having a hard time winding down at the end of the day.
BB meeting: almost every week
10PM late night meeting (discussion): hit or miss (it meets nightly)
When I was new I probably averaged 4-5 meetings a week and it still fluctuates today (after 4 years). I voted 1-2 times a week but I would have voted 2-3 times a week if it were an option. Twice a week is the norm, but 3-4 times a week is not out of the ordinary (especially if I am working with a newcomer). I never miss my home group as I usually have some type of commitment to the group every week (set up, chair, etc), and it would take something really important to get me to miss my BB meeting.
BTW when I was new I loved the 10PM "last call" meeting. It is really laid back with the lights off and the room is lit with candles. It really helped when I couldn't get my mind to shut down at the end of the day. I still like to go occasionally when I'm having a hard time winding down at the end of the day.
Home Group (discussion): every week
BB meeting: almost every week
10PM late night meeting (discussion): hit or miss (it meets nightly)
When I was new I probably averaged 4-5 meetings a week and it still fluctuates today (after 4 years). I voted 1-2 times a week but I would have voted 2-3 times a week if it were an option. Twice a week is the norm, but 3-4 times a week is not out of the ordinary (especially if I am working with a newcomer). I never miss my home group as I usually have some type of commitment to the group every week (set up, chair, etc), and it would take something really important to get me to miss my BB meeting.
BTW when I was new I loved the 10PM "last call" meeting. It is really laid back with the lights off and the room is lit with candles. It really helped when I couldn't get my mind to shut down at the end of the day. I still like to go occasionally when I'm having a hard time winding down at the end of the day.
BB meeting: almost every week
10PM late night meeting (discussion): hit or miss (it meets nightly)
When I was new I probably averaged 4-5 meetings a week and it still fluctuates today (after 4 years). I voted 1-2 times a week but I would have voted 2-3 times a week if it were an option. Twice a week is the norm, but 3-4 times a week is not out of the ordinary (especially if I am working with a newcomer). I never miss my home group as I usually have some type of commitment to the group every week (set up, chair, etc), and it would take something really important to get me to miss my BB meeting.
BTW when I was new I loved the 10PM "last call" meeting. It is really laid back with the lights off and the room is lit with candles. It really helped when I couldn't get my mind to shut down at the end of the day. I still like to go occasionally when I'm having a hard time winding down at the end of the day.
Recovered
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 1,129
I remember in the beginning...I was in my 90 in 90 (or 180 in 90 lol). I was sitting in a beginner's meeting and we were going around doing introductions (name, sobriety date, how many meetings in the last 7 days, did we have a sponsor)
This lady I admired was there and she shared that her sobriety date was in the 80's, she had a sponsor, and that she went to 3ish meetings a week. For some reason, I really glommed onto that statement.
I have a 3 meeting/week minimum...more if I need. If I miss one of my "regulars", I make it up the same or next day. I don't ever do less than 3. Period. Ever. Not an option. I have yet to come across an excuse to not make my weekly quota. I have followed my PLAN since the beginning and I'm not about to vary that in any way. My life to too amazing.
:-)
mfanch
This lady I admired was there and she shared that her sobriety date was in the 80's, she had a sponsor, and that she went to 3ish meetings a week. For some reason, I really glommed onto that statement.
I have a 3 meeting/week minimum...more if I need. If I miss one of my "regulars", I make it up the same or next day. I don't ever do less than 3. Period. Ever. Not an option. I have yet to come across an excuse to not make my weekly quota. I have followed my PLAN since the beginning and I'm not about to vary that in any way. My life to too amazing.
:-)
mfanch
I always, well almost always go to my home group's meeting on Saturday morning and another on Tuesday night. There's a morning meeting that I'll go to sometimes when I'm working at home and the schedule is more flexible.
-allan
-allan
One to two meetings a week usually.
Three meetings a week when at my second Home Group.
9 years sober.
In early sobriety I hit 4 or 5 meetings early each week day morning.
The "Jump Start Meeting."
Each day I need a sober jumpstart.
M-Bob
Three meetings a week when at my second Home Group.
9 years sober.
In early sobriety I hit 4 or 5 meetings early each week day morning.
The "Jump Start Meeting."
Each day I need a sober jumpstart.
M-Bob
For the first 1.5 years I went to 6 meetings weekly. I had no life other than drinking so I let AA be my life. As the fog started to clear and I got my sea legs I started to cut back. I asked my sponsor how many meetings I needed and he said, "Keep cutting back until you drink and then you will know."
Today 7+ years down the road I go to three which seems to work and if it ain't broke don't fix it
Today 7+ years down the road I go to three which seems to work and if it ain't broke don't fix it
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Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Western NY
Posts: 1,209
I generally hit one meeting per day and I am just over 20 months now. It is a habit now, and I am definitely a creature of habit. I always enjoyed the meetings from day one though. If I start feeling like things are getting repetitious I try to find new meetings. I am blessed enough to live in an area with a wide selection of meetings.
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