Would one drink hurt on the weekend?
heres a reply I had in another thread:
"I'm bored" or that there's "nothing to do" in early sobriety"
Oooohhh I had them words a time or 100 early on.
got called out on it.
" youre not bored. youre lazy and self centered. theres a million things to do. you just wanna do what you wannna do."
"I'm bored" or that there's "nothing to do" in early sobriety"
Oooohhh I had them words a time or 100 early on.
got called out on it.
" youre not bored. youre lazy and self centered. theres a million things to do. you just wanna do what you wannna do."
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They say it's the thinking that leads up to the drink that is the problem and the actual relapse.
Being bored is not a good reason (if any reason is) to throw away your sobriety. There are many things to do if bored. Trust me, boredom is one of my issues, too. Read, walk, GO TO A MTG, put yourself to bed early, call a friend (sponsor?), cook, go throw darts or bowling or whatever, go....
Just don't drink. That way, you won't find out what happens afterwards.
being bored is a really good reason to find out about yourself, about what kinds of things you like to do by going and trying a bunch of different things.
would one drink hurt?
not if you're the person who can just have one, with a few sips left in the glass, and then happily go get engaged in something else without giving it another thought.
i'm not that person.
doesn't sound like you are, either?
the boredom is a pointer, really, to some of the "work" you'll need to do.
would one drink hurt?
not if you're the person who can just have one, with a few sips left in the glass, and then happily go get engaged in something else without giving it another thought.
i'm not that person.
doesn't sound like you are, either?
the boredom is a pointer, really, to some of the "work" you'll need to do.
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