Visible damages while drinking !
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Visible damages while drinking !
I am here to share my visible damages I made just because of my drinking habit.
I also would like to know yours if you feel comfortable so that I can convince myself I am not alone and let it go...
1. I have been in unmatched relationship and made two childs.
2.I made few accident while driving and made scars 3.I made a decision to leave a very nice job .
4. I abused myself and my wife as the relationship was not desirable.
5.I lost all of my property to my ex-wife because I transfer them into her name .A problem in decision making.
6.Finally i got divorce and put me down to homeless.
7.I couldn't give good education to my children and they are apart from me.
8.I never use my time to grow my career .
9.I live in comfort zone and making myself so lonely.
10.Caught of drink driving and added more debts.
11. Struggling to save my job .
in a nutshell ,
Lost family ,finance,career,Peace and obviously the health is poor .
Now I am sober and spotting my mistake and working towards then.I am trying to accept the things i cant change and generating the courage to change the things I can ...
Lets be a help.each other..
take care
I also would like to know yours if you feel comfortable so that I can convince myself I am not alone and let it go...
1. I have been in unmatched relationship and made two childs.
2.I made few accident while driving and made scars 3.I made a decision to leave a very nice job .
4. I abused myself and my wife as the relationship was not desirable.
5.I lost all of my property to my ex-wife because I transfer them into her name .A problem in decision making.
6.Finally i got divorce and put me down to homeless.
7.I couldn't give good education to my children and they are apart from me.
8.I never use my time to grow my career .
9.I live in comfort zone and making myself so lonely.
10.Caught of drink driving and added more debts.
11. Struggling to save my job .
in a nutshell ,
Lost family ,finance,career,Peace and obviously the health is poor .
Now I am sober and spotting my mistake and working towards then.I am trying to accept the things i cant change and generating the courage to change the things I can ...
Lets be a help.each other..
take care
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Thank you for sharing this. The reality of alcoholism. I too have made many mistakes and some extremely poor decisions in all aspects of my life. Some days I get down thinking about it all and a bit angry with myself. But this post reminds me that all alcoholics suffer the same stuff. This is the consequenses of the disease. You are don’t thecright thing now though and working through it all trying to re build. Keep at it. Some days I find it over welding but iv got to believe the serenity prayer and also believe those who have walked this walk that it does indeed get better if we stay sober.
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You have indeed been through many difficulties and losses due to your drinking. Myself and others have suffered some of these and more in our personal accounts. I have had to start from ground zero to start my life over again with respect to everything.
The temptation to ruminate on our current position, to continuously focus on what we have suffered, can be strong. Try to stay aware of and grateful for what you do have now and remain clear about the things that you do now to make things better than the past. A positive attitude is so important if difficult to maintain.
Yes, you can do it.
The temptation to ruminate on our current position, to continuously focus on what we have suffered, can be strong. Try to stay aware of and grateful for what you do have now and remain clear about the things that you do now to make things better than the past. A positive attitude is so important if difficult to maintain.
Yes, you can do it.
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Tgank you all for your sharing .I just wanted to vent out my regrets.I am feeling well day by day .Hope the same with you alll.
Take care yourself no matter what .Love yourself and you can love others .
Take care yourself no matter what .Love yourself and you can love others .
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