Bully
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WOW! B. has always been the "strong,silent type". In the past, he was a kind-hearted, generous, loveing s-s-t. What I didn't realize until recently is what this ISM has done to him (and me 
). He acts like a kid having a tantrum if things aren't just so, and has become a bully.....and I did not realize how much of it i have put up with just to avoid the hassle of dealing with it and him. Silly me.
With your help, I am seeing how much craziness I have allowed. My bad! haha
Our son (23yr) said to him the other day "Quit acting like a baby,again." Yes; that sums it up. If he were younger and my child and not my husband, he'd sit on the chair....since he is not, I'll ignore it anyway and walk away, as if he WAS the kid on the chair. He loses his "power" over me when I think of him as a pouting little kid. THAT, I can deal with; just took me a time to see it is a different version . Same song,different verse!
Thanks!
). He acts like a kid having a tantrum if things aren't just so, and has become a bully.....and I did not realize how much of it i have put up with just to avoid the hassle of dealing with it and him. Silly me.With your help, I am seeing how much craziness I have allowed. My bad! haha
Our son (23yr) said to him the other day "Quit acting like a baby,again." Yes; that sums it up. If he were younger and my child and not my husband, he'd sit on the chair....since he is not, I'll ignore it anyway and walk away, as if he WAS the kid on the chair. He loses his "power" over me when I think of him as a pouting little kid. THAT, I can deal with; just took me a time to see it is a different version . Same song,different verse!
Thanks!
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