Don’t know how to move on.
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Don’t know how to move on.
Well it’s been 3 weeks since I asked my AH to leave after a crack binge. We have done this dance so many times I just thought this may be the time he got clean and actually came home to work through it. He has decided he wants to end out marriage and move on with his life. He can’t be happy with me or get sober with me. I trigger him. He’s looking for places to rent and has taken me off all shared services. I am devasted. For some reason, I can’t let go and feel so much shame for how things have ended. How do people get through this? He was the love of my life for 20 years.
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Oh, Metcalfe, I'm so sorry you are in pain!
But you know, 3 weeks compared to the 20 years you were together is a very, very short time. Please know that you will feel better in time. But time, well, it takes time. Hang in there, and come here any time you need to vent!
But you know, 3 weeks compared to the 20 years you were together is a very, very short time. Please know that you will feel better in time. But time, well, it takes time. Hang in there, and come here any time you need to vent!
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