He just showed up…
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He just showed up…
He is blocked on every avenue so he just drove up this morning. Telling me he is so sorry for being so mean and yada yada yada.
as soon as I saw the truck I started shaking… I figured he would eventually do this just wasn’t prepared for it being today I guess.
I am okay though stood my ground
as soon as I saw the truck I started shaking… I figured he would eventually do this just wasn’t prepared for it being today I guess.
I am okay though stood my ground
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Yes, started telling me how mean I was and that’s what the problem with the relationship was. Seriously? But that he loves me, misses me. And things were his fault. Good grief. Said all the things I thought I wanted to hear. And he was drunk. I am ok, no tears other than when he was here and saying all those things. But I’m ok I think. Still have him blocked so don’t know if he tried to reach out afterwards or not.
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Originally Posted by ScaryTime 
Yes, started telling me how mean I was and that’s what the problem with the relationship was. Seriously? But that he loves me, misses me. And things were his fault. Good grief. Said all the things I thought I wanted to hear. And he was drunk. I am ok, no tears other than when he was here and saying all those things. But I’m ok I think. Still have him blocked so don’t know if he tried to reach out afterwards or not.
Seriously, he loves you and misses you and the problem was you are so mean and (some) things were his fault. Why did he bother. What possible insight is there in anything he said, it's all just a jumble of - nothing. He said, nothing.
Well he should be sorry. Sorry he bothered you and sorry he is driving drunk. Maybe if he shows up again just don't bother answering the door? He has nothing good for you. Just a thought.
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Yes and a good thought it is to not let him in the house. And you’re right he said absolutely “nothing”. It completely caught me off guard as the last communication he “wanted nothing to do with me cuz I’m so mean”. 😉
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ST.......sounds like standard outrageous drunk talking. A drunk brain doesn't function like a "normal" sober brain does.
A saying in recovery circles-------"What do you get when a horse thief stops drinking? Answer-------"A sober horse thief".
A saying in recovery circles-------"What do you get when a horse thief stops drinking? Answer-------"A sober horse thief".
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Yes, he’s a tool. I am now kind of uncomfortable that he thinks he can just “come by” wth… telling me he loves his job and now I can go on his insurance 🤷♀️ What??? We aren’t together anymore what does he not understand. He told me weeks ago he “found a real woman”. Have at it buddy! She must have dumped him??? I don’t know…
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Agreed. He does it all the time. 😞 drives after drinking. I will do so if there’s a next time. I was pretty clear to my mind anyway that I am doing well without him, no I don’t want to get back together and on and on. And he is still blocked so.. hopefully there isn’t a “next time”
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