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I did not make it through day 6. I relapsed on August 21st. I've managed 11 or 12 days AF since then, but still not getting to the 1 week mark. I'm signed off work at the moment and due back in 2 weeks. I feel very alone just now as no one I am close to knows where I'm at. The only thing I can really do is try again tomorrow. Last time I relapsed I went from one or two drinking sessions in the evening per week to daily drinking, morning drinking and taking time out from work just to drink within a 3 month period. I wish I could afford a 14 day detox so I'm supervised and have some diazepam....
Anyone out there in my situation right now??!
Anyone out there in my situation right now??!
Have had maybe 10 relapses in 2 years. Maybe 65 % drinking 35 % sober. Not exactly sure. I sort of count days but not religiously because I’m not sure it helps.
It’s maddening to keep failing. Usually it starts off with a few beers and ends up at 10 or 12 a day. My wife is sick of it and sick of hearing about it. The whole process sucks because it takes a week to get back to normalish. Sleep food etc.
My kids hate it too. Just because they have seen me get to be a real pain in the ass before. They don’t want to be around it. Good news is they don’t drink.
Most people recommend AA if you can’t afford rehab. If you have insurance they might cover it. Or just go to a clinic and ask the doctor to have mercy on you.
I’m trying to do the same as you and figure out what to do differently this time. AA did help me some.
It’s maddening to keep failing. Usually it starts off with a few beers and ends up at 10 or 12 a day. My wife is sick of it and sick of hearing about it. The whole process sucks because it takes a week to get back to normalish. Sleep food etc.
My kids hate it too. Just because they have seen me get to be a real pain in the ass before. They don’t want to be around it. Good news is they don’t drink.
Most people recommend AA if you can’t afford rehab. If you have insurance they might cover it. Or just go to a clinic and ask the doctor to have mercy on you.
I’m trying to do the same as you and figure out what to do differently this time. AA did help me some.
Have had maybe 10 relapses in 2 years. Maybe 65 % drinking 35 % sober. Not exactly sure. I sort of count days but not religiously because I’m not sure it helps.
It’s maddening to keep failing. Usually it starts off with a few beers and ends up at 10 or 12 a day. My wife is sick of it and sick of hearing about it. The whole process sucks because it takes a week to get back to normalish. Sleep food etc.
My kids hate it too. Just because they have seen me get to be a real pain in the ass before. They don’t want to be around it. Good news is they don’t drink.
Most people recommend AA if you can’t afford rehab. If you have insurance they might cover it. Or just go to a clinic and ask the doctor to have mercy on you.
I’m trying to do the same as you and figure out what to do differently this time. AA did help me some.
It’s maddening to keep failing. Usually it starts off with a few beers and ends up at 10 or 12 a day. My wife is sick of it and sick of hearing about it. The whole process sucks because it takes a week to get back to normalish. Sleep food etc.
My kids hate it too. Just because they have seen me get to be a real pain in the ass before. They don’t want to be around it. Good news is they don’t drink.
Most people recommend AA if you can’t afford rehab. If you have insurance they might cover it. Or just go to a clinic and ask the doctor to have mercy on you.
I’m trying to do the same as you and figure out what to do differently this time. AA did help me some.
I'm glad that you're back. If you think AA would help you, then go for it. Do whatever it takes. It could also help if you are able to figure out what is happening that is leading you back to drinking again. You could try to come up with a plan for yourself that would help prevent you relapsing and enable you to get beyond the one week mark. :P
Not sure about where you live, but I went to the local hospital here to detox once. I wanted to go to the treatment center but there were no rooms available, so the hospital helped instead. I've also gone to my doctor several times to get prescriptions to help me through withdrawal. That at least gets you off the alcohol so you can get started on long-term recovery. It won't be any use until/unless you do that last part. I know this from experience. Wishing you the very best.
I'm glad that you're back. If you think AA would help you, then go for it. Do whatever it takes. It could also help if you are able to figure out what is happening that is leading you back to drinking again. You could try to come up with a plan for yourself that would help prevent you relapsing and enable you to get beyond the one week mark. :P
As you're in the UK, your local health authority should have it's own alcohol addiction service. You possibly already know who the service provider is but if not there is a search facility on the NHS website. The search results often include other sources of local support.
https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/ot...ionSearch/1805 (Mods / admin: please remove link if it breaks forum rules)
Good luck, I often kept relapsing at around the week or two week mark. I still do although I did achieve 6 months of sobriety earlier this year. I found it easier once I got through the initial two or three weeks and I posted a lot and read a lot at SR to do that.
https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/ot...ionSearch/1805 (Mods / admin: please remove link if it breaks forum rules)
Good luck, I often kept relapsing at around the week or two week mark. I still do although I did achieve 6 months of sobriety earlier this year. I found it easier once I got through the initial two or three weeks and I posted a lot and read a lot at SR to do that.
Not sure about where you live, but I went to the local hospital here to detox once. I wanted to go to the treatment center but there were no rooms available, so the hospital helped instead. I've also gone to my doctor several times to get prescriptions to help me through withdrawal. That at least gets you off the alcohol so you can get started on long-term recovery. It won't be any use until/unless you do that last part. I know this from experience. Wishing you the very best.
As you're in the UK, your local health authority should have it's own alcohol addiction service. You possibly already know who the service provider is but if not there is a search facility on the NHS website. The search results often include other sources of local support.
https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/ot...ionSearch/1805 (Mods / admin: please remove link if it breaks forum rules)
Good luck, I often kept relapsing at around the week or two week mark. I still do although I did achieve 6 months of sobriety earlier this year. I found it easier once I got through the initial two or three weeks and I posted a lot and read a lot at SR to do that.
https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/ot...ionSearch/1805 (Mods / admin: please remove link if it breaks forum rules)
Good luck, I often kept relapsing at around the week or two week mark. I still do although I did achieve 6 months of sobriety earlier this year. I found it easier once I got through the initial two or three weeks and I posted a lot and read a lot at SR to do that.
I'm sorry you drank but I'm glad you made it back.
I know 6 days can seem a lifetime, but its not...don't fall for the line that this is the best you're going to feel or that this is the way sober life will be, forever.
It gets better...but probably not in 6 days
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-distance.html (Keep your eyes on the middle distance)
I know 6 days can seem a lifetime, but its not...don't fall for the line that this is the best you're going to feel or that this is the way sober life will be, forever.
It gets better...but probably not in 6 days
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-distance.html (Keep your eyes on the middle distance)
Thank you Dee74 and jtennery.....I will take this advice and fight forward with realistic expectations! ....even though I had these already, but addiction is stronger than realism, I think. I can only try again! 22:24 was my last consumption of alcohol. Pizza, water, painkillers, sleep. I will see what I can achieve this time... 😌
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Whether somebody goes to rehab or AA or something else, either that light comes on or it doesn't. If you really want that light to come on, and you show up for meeting after meeting and do what is suggested its probably going to come on.
Getting sober is HARD work.
What I found to be helpful was a structured schedule that had each hour accounted for.
Mornings were devoted to SR
Exercise
Breakfast
Work
Home to a bath
dinner
AA meeting and SR
Bed
I attended meetings for the first few months and then developed my own program to keep me sane and healthy.
You can do this. You can get sober and be free from your addiction. Do not be defeated. Keep on moving forward.
What I found to be helpful was a structured schedule that had each hour accounted for.
Mornings were devoted to SR
Exercise
Breakfast
Work
Home to a bath
dinner
AA meeting and SR
Bed
I attended meetings for the first few months and then developed my own program to keep me sane and healthy.
You can do this. You can get sober and be free from your addiction. Do not be defeated. Keep on moving forward.
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sounds very familiar to me tbh........ i have only just got a doctor, but they are reluctant to give me antidepressants that i feel i relly need....because of the drink and drugs i have been using......
i do hope you get where you want to go...........all the best!
i do hope you get where you want to go...........all the best!
I used antidepressants for 20 odd years...the long term use triggered mania and psychosis, we are all different of course.
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