Dedicated2chnge

My girlfriend’s life seems to be going well. She was unemployed but has. pretty good job now that she’s doing great at. She can pay her rent and bills but doesn’t have a lot after that. She recently began the journey to quit smoking. She has also been on suboxone for 2+ years. I have about 8 months clean. I keep judging her for using suboxone and not participating in the NA program like I am. I feel like I’m alone in my recovery path sort of. I don’t want to judge and don’t want to be scared about it bc she’s pretty awesome otherwise. The only other thing is she has like $30,000 of debt that is all medical, random bills, student loans that are all in default and aren’t being addressed whatsoever and I’m good with money and climbed out of my financial wreckage and the situation scares the hell out of me. I just need feedback. She’s very aware of my concerns. I don’t want to keep staying and then backing away and then coming back and then backing off again and hurting her. Please help!