2020 or BUST
AKA ComputerMan
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2020 or BUST
What are you looking forward to in the new year??
I am going to help at least 5 people here in my home town get in an AA meeting.
Also I am going to start looking for a sober girlfriend, at 40 years old and one marriage behind me I'm sure this will be interesting
I am going to help at least 5 people here in my home town get in an AA meeting.
Also I am going to start looking for a sober girlfriend, at 40 years old and one marriage behind me I'm sure this will be interesting
AKA ComputerMan
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Originally Posted by Formy2boys2 
Awesome goals!
this upcoming year I am going to take care of me. I tend to absorb other peoples problems but neglect my own. Day 5 here so I definitely will focus on maintaining the course
this upcoming year I am going to take care of me. I tend to absorb other peoples problems but neglect my own. Day 5 here so I definitely will focus on maintaining the course
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Wow you know I haven't really thought about it in a sense . one thing for sure is I am going to continue on my journey I am carving out in my life. I have a little head start with 238 days. The goals I was setting and doing were a bunch of mini goals. Managable if you will feel me. I'm setting up and getting my foundation ready. Being 238 ago was being held by twigs. Lol. Why? Cause I was missing the main ingredient to build a foundation. And thats being sober. Having a clear head. Making smart choices. So my check list is pretty simple actually. I keep it real fam. Progress not perfection. I want to do it right the first time. ✌
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Originally Posted by Mary88
Hoping to do something good with my life in 2020. Probably some voluntary work. To support and encourage the people around me as best I can. I would like to meet a sober man. They seem scarce though.
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Originally Posted by VinnyMcM
Find a new career path. I’ve been in sales for 17 years. Good money but a lot of stress.
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Good move by you. Computers are obviously the present and future of the world. I thought about it. I do have a business degree but I’m so sick of the corporate world.
Going back to school probably isn’t an option right now. I have a 4 and 7 year old and a wife with a very good job with a lot of hours. I know, a lot of excuses. In the end, it’s going to be up to me to figure this out. But yes, computer science does sound intriguing to me.
Going back to school probably isn’t an option right now. I have a 4 and 7 year old and a wife with a very good job with a lot of hours. I know, a lot of excuses. In the end, it’s going to be up to me to figure this out. But yes, computer science does sound intriguing to me.
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Originally Posted by VinnyMcM
Good move by you. Computers are obviously the present and future of the world. I thought about it. I do have a business degree but I’m so sick of the corporate world.
Going back to school probably isn’t an option right now. I have a 4 and 7 year old and a wife with a very good job with a lot of hours. I know, a lot of excuses. In the end, it’s going to be up to me to figure this out. But yes, computer science does sound intriguing to me.
Going back to school probably isn’t an option right now. I have a 4 and 7 year old and a wife with a very good job with a lot of hours. I know, a lot of excuses. In the end, it’s going to be up to me to figure this out. But yes, computer science does sound intriguing to me.
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In 2020, my primary goal is to not drink. My secondary goal is to drop 50 pounds -- just 1 pound a week would do it. Of course, not drinking will eliminate a lot of calories. Third, the mister and I plan to buy a retirement home in a warmer latitude and gradually move and get our current home ready for sale.
I will continue to volunteer as a master gardener and continue to assist my elderly parents -- we'll be here half time for the year, even if we find a new home next week.
I will continue to volunteer as a master gardener and continue to assist my elderly parents -- we'll be here half time for the year, even if we find a new home next week.
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Originally Posted by VinnyMcM
Mary, I agree. They aren’t that scarce. Sober women either. We are just used to being around the same people we were.
Good luck with your career change.
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I like this thread! My goal is to shift my perspective to the positive. I’ve been caught in a negative cycle lately, particularly in regards to work, so I’m going to channel Least and practice gratitude and shift perspective.
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I’d love to list so many things here, but I’m pretty sure I’m not in full control and that someone has a plan for me. The one thing I will list, because with out it 2020 will be nothing - I want to find my sober life. Whatever it looks like I want it.
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