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Old 10-23-2019, 08:18 AM
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Hello again

Hello to anybody that I have spoken to on here before. I hope you are all doing well or at least surviving.

I was in the May group and had a drink free May 2019, then June was mixed, I had about 7 weeks drink free in July/August and then picked up where I had left of in September and started drinking again.

Luckily when I was in fighting mode at the beginning of the summer, I made an appointment to see a psychiatrist and I've been to specialist clinic this month.

I've tried this before and this time am going to try something new, group therapy. It's a general group for people who have suffered addictions, so not just alcohol. I'll have that and also see the therapist on and individual basis.

I feel positive as although I've made a few attempts and failed, each time I've learnt something and have learnt what doesn't work for me.

As always, it's scary at the beginning.
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Old 10-23-2019, 08:26 AM
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Hi Santi, welcome back!
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Old 10-23-2019, 08:45 AM
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Hi Santi, welcome back!
Thanks Mags
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Old 10-23-2019, 08:55 AM
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Welcome back my friend. Hey whatever works.. ✌
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Old 10-23-2019, 09:00 AM
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Welcome back my friend. Hey whatever works.. ✌
yes, that's the idea, to keep trying until I find what works for me. I'm happy to see that things are going well for you.
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Old 10-23-2019, 09:01 AM
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Stay sober and keep moving forwards each day and everything will continue to improve. Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness to change are all essential for solid recovery in my experience
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Old 10-23-2019, 09:16 AM
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Stay sober and keep moving forwards each day and everything will continue to improve. Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness to change are all essential for solid recovery in my experience
Thank you. That's why I've decided to go to the group sessions, it was something I'd not wanted to do before and now I feel open to all help.
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Old 10-23-2019, 09:31 AM
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Glad you're back and exploring new methods of recovery.
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Old 10-23-2019, 10:05 AM
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Hi Santi! Welcome back! You can do this!
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Old 10-23-2019, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Santi27 View Post
yes, that's the idea, to keep trying until I find what works for me. I'm happy to see that things are going well for you.
Glad you're back.

It sounds like you have established what doesn't work (i.e. whatever you were doing over the course of the last 5 months).

I suggest that you engage in some due diligence as to plans or programs of recovery that some of the folks on these forums have successfully used to get and stay sober.

In other words, it sounds like you need to try to determine what does work and follow the guidelines of that program.

Please keep us posted as to your progress.

I also suggest that you check out the Alcoholism section of the forum.
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Welcome back, and I do hope the group therapy helps you to stay sober.
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Old 10-23-2019, 11:56 AM
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Hi Santi 🙂
We were in the May class together. Welcome back 👍🏼
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Old 10-23-2019, 01:34 PM
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welcome back Santi

I'm sorry that you've struggled but making it back here and recommitting to recovery is half the battle

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Old 10-24-2019, 03:35 AM
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Originally Posted by SoberCAH View Post
Glad you're back.

It sounds like you have established what doesn't work (i.e. whatever you were doing over the course of the last 5 months).

I suggest that you engage in some due diligence as to plans or programs of recovery that some of the folks on these forums have successfully used to get and stay sober.

In other words, it sounds like you need to try to detine what does work and follow the guidelines of that program.

Please keep us posted as to your progress.

I also suggest that you check out the Alcoholism section of the forum.
Thank you. I'll let you know how it goes. I liked the people at the centre, I just need to put in the hard work now and stick to the plan.
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Old 10-24-2019, 03:36 AM
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Hi Santi 🙂
We were in the May class together. Welcome back 👍🏼
Yes, I remember you! It seems like a long time ago now. I hope you're well and often wonder what happened to everyone!
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