First AA meeting...check
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First AA meeting...check
Attended my first AA meeting this evening and WHEW was I a nervous wreck. But I survived and everyone was really nice. Met a few ladies who all offered their phone numbers. Introduced myself very briefly (name and number of sober days). They did an around the room reading but I was able to pass (thank goodness, I知 terrified of public speaking). Got my white chip. I知 hoping as I go to more and get more comfortable with the people I値l be able to open up. So, first meeting and day 5 down. This is just the beginning!
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Originally Posted by HeadEast 
Thanks for that. I'm thinking about attending my first AA meeting, and I have many of the same fears.
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Hi,
I was so nervous too, and yet there I was, at 55 years old. Best, the best action I have ever taken in my life. That was almost 7 years ago.
It'll be easier my friend. Good to have you here on SR!
Bobbi
I was so nervous too, and yet there I was, at 55 years old. Best, the best action I have ever taken in my life. That was almost 7 years ago.
It'll be easier my friend. Good to have you here on SR!
Bobbi
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Originally Posted by JazV36
Attended my first AA meeting this evening and WHEW was I a nervous wreck. But I survived and everyone was really nice. Met a few ladies who all offered their phone numbers. Introduced myself very briefly (name and number of sober days). They did an around the room reading but I was able to pass (thank goodness, I知 terrified of public speaking). Got my white chip. I知 hoping as I go to more and get more comfortable with the people I値l be able to open up. So, first meeting and day 5 down. This is just the beginning!
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Originally Posted by HeadEast
Thanks for that. I'm thinking about attending my first AA meeting, and I have many of the same fears.
(I'd actually volunteer to take you over to York Street myself, maybe to the women's meeting or something, but if you think AA is scary, you should meet me!!!)
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I don't think I've ever met someone who didn't feel nervous or apprehensive going to there first AA meeting. "Keep coming back" is one motto that is there for a reason. Going through the doors was waaaay out of my comfort zone but it gets better, so much better. Sobriety is awesome.... life starts all over in so many ways. Keep up the good work!! Visit this site often and hear the hope and gratitude of those who are making it. It will change your life in ways you could never imagine.
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Congrats on going Jaz! VERY brave of you and it gets sooo much easier. In the first few meetings, I had someone go with me. It was an open meeting and they just introduced themselves as "Hi, I'm So and so and here to support Zevin." The first time by myself, I drove around and around the building and couldn't go in. I was so disappointed in myself.
The second time by myself, I got there EARLY and hung out with the smokers until the building was unlocked.
Now, I am SO proud that I can go by myself, welcome newcomers and give out my phone number.
HeadEast, go to a meeting and let us know how it goes. Remember, EVERYONE has been in the exact same state of mind you are in. They will understand how you feel.
The second time by myself, I got there EARLY and hung out with the smokers until the building was unlocked.
Now, I am SO proud that I can go by myself, welcome newcomers and give out my phone number.
HeadEast, go to a meeting and let us know how it goes. Remember, EVERYONE has been in the exact same state of mind you are in. They will understand how you feel.
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Patcha- are you back in the program now? Hope so.
Jaz- awesome stuff! When is your next one? When I finally went to AA it was the end of the line, and I did about 82 of the 90/90 suggested. I think the other days I was at the dr or psych - getting on a regular routine is a great idea.
And HeadEast, I hope you give it a try too!
Jaz- awesome stuff! When is your next one? When I finally went to AA it was the end of the line, and I did about 82 of the 90/90 suggested. I think the other days I was at the dr or psych - getting on a regular routine is a great idea.
And HeadEast, I hope you give it a try too!
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