itiswellwmysoul

Hi guys, just stumbled upon this website as I was searching for feedback about my current situation. My bf is in a 9 month rehab & tomorrow will be 6 weeks. He is no longer allowed to write me letters as 6 guys just left in the past week. He can still write his mom & he put a letter to me in it. He said he misses me so much & to please let him know how I'm doing. I miss him so much too. I attend weekly alanon meetings which definitely have been helping.

Dee74

Hi and welcome itswellwithmysoul

I know it must be hard right now but I'm really impressed with your bfs commitment to a long programme.

I hope that, before you know it, the 9 months will be up. I imagine he'll be able to legitimately send you letters again at some stage too?

You'll find a ton of support here too and in our Family and Friends forums too
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/#friends-family

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SoberRican

Good morning . good for him for trying to better his life..... Long as he is doing it for himself feel me. Cause if not he is setting himself up for failure. Do the right thing the rest will follow. Iwndwyt

Abraham

I hope you stand by this man as he tries his best to get a better life. It will be over in no time and you will both be in a better place. Best of luck to both of you.

january161992

awesome demonstration of willingness

itiswellwmysoul

Thank you guys so much for the encouragement! I definitely will stand by his side through this! He went rehab last year for a 28 day program but this time it is that times 9!

Hope1989

It's always great when someone commits to save themselves

Abraham

Yea, thats a long one, and you are awesome. Nothing is better than having a nice, strong, supportive better half. My best wishes to the both of you in the future.