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Old 04-05-2019, 11:19 AM
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20 days sober!

Well I can’t believe I’m saying this but I have been one sober sally for 20 days! I’m incredibly shocked and proud that I made it this far! I never committed myself to not drink because it just seemed way too hard. It by no means has been easy but I feel alert to life. I don’t just want to stay home all weekend, unshowered, and stay consistently drink. I kid you not I would wake up at 6 am in pain, and would have purposely saved a beverage for immediate hair of the dog relief. I thank God I’m not that person anymore.

Side note: I am incredibly moody some days and other days I’m fine. I feel bipolar!
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Old 04-05-2019, 11:44 AM
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Congrats on the 20 days, great start! Don't worry too much about being moody, it seems extreme at the time but fades as you continue and as you learn how to deal with every day stresses in a healthy way.
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Twenty days is great, and it's nice to feel wonderful instead of worrying about having a drink. Enjoy the changes as they come, and keep your wits about you. The next 20 days will be even easier for you, just make it your goal not to drink each day.
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I'm the same. On 22 days and my mood swings are unbelievable at the minute. Luckily, I'm in a very good mood today though! Congrats on 20 days!
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20 days - how fabulous, takeaction. Be proud!

My moods settled down after a couple months. It's a big adjustment we're experiencing.
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Fantastic job on 20 days!
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Congrats on 20 days sober! Keep going, it gets better.
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Congrats on 20 days!
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Old 04-05-2019, 05:26 PM
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Congratulations on 20 days! Great job!
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Old 04-05-2019, 05:30 PM
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well done takeaction

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Old 04-06-2019, 12:02 AM
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Old 04-06-2019, 06:14 AM
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20 days of being your true self! Amazing. Do it again and you’ll have fourty. You can do this. Congratulations.
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Old 04-06-2019, 06:17 AM
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Terrific!! Moods and agitation settle for us, in my experience- consistent sobriety is the key. We can also learn to handle the down so much better - cause it is inevitable for everyone.

Keep going, day 21, and each day.
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Old 04-07-2019, 04:22 AM
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Outstanding!
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Old 04-07-2019, 04:35 AM
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How are you today, Takeaction?
You passed the 3 week milestone!
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Old 04-07-2019, 04:15 PM
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Today has been hard

Today is the first day in my sobriety that I am really itching for a beer! The weather is beautiful so everybody is out having happy hour under big red umbrellas. I desperately want to join today. Instead I’ve been keeping myself extra busy. Hi Chloe I’m really trying to be strong and make tomorrow day 23. Thank you for asking ☺️
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Old 04-10-2019, 12:11 PM
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Hi Takeaction,

How are you doing today?
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Old 04-10-2019, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Takeaction View Post
Today is the first day in my sobriety that I am really itching for a beer! The weather is beautiful so everybody is out having happy hour under big red umbrellas. I desperately want to join today. Instead I’ve been keeping myself extra busy. Hi Chloe I’m really trying to be strong and make tomorrow day 23. Thank you for asking ☺️
Hi takeaction - Yeah those desires will hit you out of the blue

remember to 'play the tape through'.
Other people can drink go back to work or home, and forget it.

Days like that never ended well for me.

besides keeping busy and posting here what else are you doing to stay sober?

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