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Old 09-17-2018, 09:07 PM
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Going to AA tomorrow.

I'm going to go to an AA meeting tomorrow. Never been before... too scared.

I really want to live a sober life. I hope I don't just park in the street and leave.

I usually start drinking at 5 pm, the meeting I plan to go to is at 6:30. It says it's a closed meeting, but if I read correctly that just means it's closed to anyone that isn't there to quit drinking?

I'm terrified, but I hope it works.
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Old 09-17-2018, 09:33 PM
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I think it's a great thing to try Kage - all the best

some good info here:
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Old 09-17-2018, 09:41 PM
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Yes, "closed" means only those who want to stop drinking.

I don't think I could have gotten sober without AA. It's a super weird feeling to walk through the door of your first meeting, but everyone there has been through the same thing. You'll be welcome there.

Good luck to you!
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Old 09-17-2018, 10:26 PM
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Glad you shared! The first meeting is hard - you are doing a great thing. Be gentle with yourself and let us know how it goes.
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Old 09-17-2018, 11:26 PM
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The people are all there for the same reason. Either they want to get sober or they want to stay sober. They will understand.
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Old 09-18-2018, 05:04 AM
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Let us know how you went.
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Old 09-18-2018, 07:20 AM
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And remember- all of us in AA had our very first meeting too! Whether it was yesterday or many years ago, we all know what it is like.
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Old 09-18-2018, 10:22 AM
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I was scared witless, too. I had to circle the block a few times but didn't go in.
Finally, I decided I wanted to get sober more than I wanted to drink and went in.
Nobody seemed to notice me as being new. When the speaker asked if it was anyone's first meeting I was too chicken to raise my hand.

It took me about five different meetings before I said anything, but I sure did absorb a lot of wisdom.
I think it's great you're going. You have nothing to fear. And everything to gain.
Best to you and let us know how it goes.
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Old 09-18-2018, 11:15 AM
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Good for you!
I went to my first meeting a few weeks ago. It was hard to get through the door but I was so glad I went. There was something for me in that action of going, before hearing anything or participating, that has helped me to accept that I'm an alcoholic. It felt like a powerful step in itself. Plus everyone is really nice to newcomers.
Keep us posted! xx
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Old 09-19-2018, 04:07 PM
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how did you go Kage?

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Old 09-19-2018, 04:41 PM
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I hope that the meeting went well, Kage.
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