maurab

My sponsor is pulling away from me (I send a text message or a voice mail and don’t hear back.) When did talk to her, I asked if I had done something wrong, she said no. It is painful because i am also having problems at home.
I do not know what to do.

icewater1961

Perhaps you need another sponsor? But before going that far typically AA groups have phone lists. You could call some of the women on such a list.

nez

You are doing it, you are talking about it. Goodatcha! When I internalize my feelings, my feedback is limited and my source always doesn't give the best advice. There are ears and hearts out there that are willing and glad to walk with you through this time. Seek them out.

tomsteve

glad youre here, maurab. my sponsor made it clear he doesnt have all the answers,wont always be available, and that is a great reason to have a list of phone numbers
you can aslo open up here and maybe we can help ya,too.

AnvilheadII

sponsors have lives too.....they can't be everything to everyone, nor should they be available on demand. that's part of recovery, learning to NOT need instant gratification, immediate replies.

best option is to head to a meeting. you can be around other recovering persons, and maybe go for coffee afterwards......