soberDan58

Hi everyone, I hope your having a good night. I've been worried about my gf getting out of rehab soon (in 2 weeks) more specifically, I'm worried that I wont know how to support her sobriety, what not to talk about and or what I should talk to her about, I've been clean and sober for 2.5 years but this is new to her and me. aside from Alanon, would anyone have advice regarding do's and dont's. I feel like I'm totally unprepared for this. Thanks

trailmix

hi soberdan,

I don't have a lot of advice on this as it's out of my realm of experience but I'm wondering if perhaps asking her would be a good thing. If you two talk and set some ground rules (for both) might make you both comfortable?

I'm glad to hear she is seeking help and congratulations on your sobriety.

soberDan58

Thanks Trailmix, that sounds like good advice, i appreciate that

tomsteve

one thing i think you should talk about is your boundaries- what wont be accepted or allowed.
work alanon,too. talk to your sponsor about it.
protect your sobriety.