Colors39

Just wanted to say that I have found not drinking with my boyfriend has helped our relationship tremendously. I am thinking much more clearly as far as his actions when he is intoxicated. I also am much less angry (still disappointed sometimes), but do not have the flame in me that always wants to create drama.

I also find that when I do not drink with my boyfriend, he tends to drink less. I do not know why this is. (Maybe that is a stupid thing to say. ) Not much less, but I can see that he is trying to sip his beers just a bit slower.

I am thinking SO much more clearly. This is all.

aliciagr

Thats Great Colors. I think it was an excellent idea. It does give some insight into how the alcohol affects a persons ability to cope and respond to situations doesnt it? You sound like you feel a lot better. Who knows, he may be taking cues from you. It certainly cant hurt to have your good influence around.