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Old 04-23-2017, 09:02 AM
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Hi my name is paula
i am ready to finally stop drinking before i lose everything, i have lost several jobs and friends because of my drinking. Several attempts but anxiety is so bad that alcohol is the only thing that helps.looking forward to being a part of this group.
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Old 04-23-2017, 09:05 AM
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Hi Paula,

I am also struggling with anxiety, and am starting to loose everything. I hope that we can do this together!

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Old 04-23-2017, 09:50 AM
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Welcome! You will find a lot of support here.
Alcohol produces anxiety. It takes a little bit for your system to calm down once the alcohol has been removed. If you add alcohol to an already anxious state it just creates a non stop anxiety ridden life.

Coming from someone who has suffered from anxiety.
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Old 04-23-2017, 09:57 AM
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Hi my name is paula
i am ready to finally stop drinking before i lose everything, i have lost several jobs and friends because of my drinking. Several attempts but anxiety is so bad that alcohol is the only thing that helps.looking forward to being a part of this group.
Welcome. Congratulations on your decision to change your life!!! Theres so much support here. Anxiety is hard but will get better once you quit the drinking.
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Old 04-23-2017, 10:06 AM
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Hi Paula...welcome to SR.

We all know how you feel. Like you, I lost a lot of friends and embarrassed myself regularly because of drinking. My anxiety was out of control. Some days I could barely get out of bed.

As many have said, the anxiety is ramped up because of the alcohol. Once I stopped drinking, it was only a matter of days before the anxiety subsided and I began to have hope again.

This site will provide you with a plethora of support and information to get your life back. Take a look around, post, explore all of the information and you will see what I mean.

I look forward to getting to know you better. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.

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Old 04-23-2017, 10:13 AM
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Hi my name is paula
i am ready to finally stop drinking before i lose everything, i have lost several jobs and friends because of my drinking. Several attempts but anxiety is so bad that alcohol is the only thing that helps.looking forward to being a part of this group.
Welcome aboard Paula. Most of us have similar stories - alcohol took everything from me, jobs, friends, family, almost my life. Anxiety can be tough early on (although goes away), but you will find a lot of support here. All of us have been where you are at one point.
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Old 04-23-2017, 11:08 AM
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Welcome to SR. So many people use alcohol to alleviate anxiety when in reality it exacerbates the problem. I never had anxiety issues until I started binge drinking. Then I had extreme anxiety. If you quit, I think you will experience a reduction in anxiety.
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Old 04-23-2017, 12:08 PM
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Welcome Paula! Here you'll find lots of support and information on addiction. Keep posting!
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Welcome Paula....I'm glad you've taken this step.
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Old 04-23-2017, 04:04 PM
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Hi Paula

Glad you found us.
When I first gave up drinking, I spent a lot of time here at the start.
I have been stopped over 5 years now, but still get homesick for here, so I drop in a couple of times a week.

I hope you find this site supportive and honest, like I do/did.

I wish you the best xx
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Old 04-23-2017, 04:07 PM
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Nice to meet you Paula, hope SR helps you as much as it has helped me. Your making a great decision.
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Old 04-23-2017, 04:14 PM
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Hi Paula, so glad you found SR! Alcohol is so cunning, baffling, powerful... I too have suffered from withdrawal related alcohol and it was difficult to deal with.. but stay strong and know that it will end if you remain sober!

I too lost jobs and friends because of alcohol. I remember a particularly bad binge where I felt so hopeless. Alcohol used to be a social activity, then it became my reason to get out of bed... It's no way to live! So glad you've made this important​ step
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Old 04-23-2017, 04:16 PM
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I meant anxiety!! Sorry
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Old 04-23-2017, 04:34 PM
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Welcome to SR, Paula; very glad you found us.
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Good to have you join us Paula

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Old 04-23-2017, 05:12 PM
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Great to have you, Paula. Welcome. Come on in, the water is fine.
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Old 04-23-2017, 07:00 PM
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Pp,

The anxiety is caused by the booze.

You might have some natural anxiety, but...in my experience...

I was a blithering..anxious...hypertensive..wreck.

That is why folks relapse over and over.

Some need meds to quit.

You might need a dr. If you find it impossible to quit on your own.

Thanks.
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Hi! I'm new to the forum and on day 6 sober. Some great advice and comments already, so I'll just say 'hi' from a fellow newbie
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