* Think ahead. Is it hard for you to be around alcohol? Be honest with yourself. Now is not a time for heroics. Keep your expectations realistic: if it is going to be too difficult, maybe this year is a time to do something different...Don't set yourself up to fail.

* If there are people at superbowl parties who trigger you, be ready. You don't have to go to every fight you're invited to .. plan what you'll say or do if someone gives you a hard time.

* Have safe people to call - program their numbers into your phone in advance, and tell them you're going to call if things get tough. If everyone around you is drinking and it starts to bring you down, talking to someone else who is sober helps you remember that you are NOT alone.

* Bring/have your own beverages. This is especially important if you're going to be around people who don't know you're sober. If you always have a drink in your hand, people won't hand you alcohol or ask if you want something to drink.

* You don't have to over explain. If someone is pressuring you to drink, be ready with an answer.

* Plan your exit in advance. If everyone is going to settle in to watch football and drink and you don't want to be part of it ... don't.

* Have an escape plan. If you can, bring your own car.

* Remember to be proud of yourself - shame and guilt are huge triggers. Give yourself credit for staying strong.

* Think about the next morning, when you'll wake up hangover-free and rested. Think about how horribly you felt the morning after drinking, and how sober you don't wake up and think, "I wish I drank last night."

* Think through the drink. If you start romancing how nice "one drink" would be, remember how many times you told yourself you were only going to have one and failed. Having one is harder than having none, because once alcohol is in your system the obsession comes alive.

* Remind yourself that Superbowl Sunday is just one day. A simple 24 hours, just like any other day. Don't put more importance on this day over any other.

* Go to bed. If the day is harder than you expected, go to bed early just to put the day to rest. Tomorrow is a new day.

* Believe in yourself. Getting sober and staying sober takes serious guts - you are brave and strong and true. If guilt, shame and remorse start talking to you, remind yourself that it's your disease sneaking in the back door. Let your sober voice ring loud and proud in your head.

* Forgive yourself for wanting to drink. Don't expect that you won't be hit with a craving; it's natural. Prepare for how you're going to handle the craving instead of berating yourself for having one.

* Be grateful.... make a gratitude list and carry it with you. Try to focus on the gifts you have in your life, all the possibilities that lie in front of you, instead of all the things you can't have. Sober, you can do anything.

from:
Crying Out Now: Thanksgiving Survival Guide