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Old 09-25-2015, 02:20 AM
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Nobody on the chat?

Wanted to talk to somebody and nobody was there.
I need help and advice.
My "last" binge/blowout has gone wrong. Who would of thought? It's not what I expected.
I feel so ill. I hope I haven't overdone it.
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:28 AM
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binges and blowouts seldom "go right"....

whaddya think, is it time perhaps to embrace sobriety?

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Old 09-25-2015, 02:32 AM
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Welcome LikeAFish what's going on ? Sorry your feeling I'll , some details would be good .
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:41 AM
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LikeAfish come join me in the chat room
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:43 AM
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I hope you come back LikeAFish.
We want to help

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Old 09-25-2015, 02:58 AM
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Originally Posted by FreeOwl View Post
binges and blowouts seldom "go right"....

whaddya think, is it time perhaps to embrace sobriety?

Thanks. I know that they never go right I also know they never end. Except they can end.
I have to accept they need to end.
I shouldn't post here whilst drinking. Sorry.
I will reply when sober.
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:00 AM
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Thanks. I know that they never go right I also know they never end. Except they can end.
I have to accept they need to end.
I shouldn't post here whilst drinking. Sorry.
I will reply when sober.
it's OK.... we'd rather have you post here while drinking than have you just keep on drinking!!

how about pouring out any booze you have left, switching to water and getting started on ending this binge right now?

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Old 09-25-2015, 03:00 AM
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SR is for people struggling LikeAFish - please don't think you have to be sober to post here.
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:06 AM
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I can never get into the chatroom. It always says 'plug in needed' but there's nothing to click on to help me get said plug in....otherwise I'd always be in there, sorry LikeAfish:
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:14 AM
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The chat room needs Java

https://java.com/en/download/manual.jsp

if you're using Google Chrome, it doesn't like Java - you'll probably have to try another browser.

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Old 09-25-2015, 03:35 AM
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Aww thanks Dee!
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:41 AM
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Old 09-25-2015, 11:30 AM
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Welcome to the Forum LikeAFish!!
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Old 09-25-2015, 12:29 PM
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I'm still here. Feeling much better now. I made it through.
It's evening where I am and I'm sober for once.
That was a bad one. I can't wait to feel completely sober tomorrow morning. A weekend not drunk ? What will I accomplish ?
Thanks for the replies.
BTW chat works just fine on an android phone .x
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:57 PM
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Welcome LikeAFish!

We have our Friday Chat Meeting @9pm EST, we'd love to have you join us.
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:49 PM
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I'm going to try make the mtn myself if I can stay awake
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:31 PM
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Wow Wolf...a meeting at 2 AM !...thats a rough one.

Hope you make it !

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Old 09-25-2015, 11:09 PM
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... A weekend not drunk ? What will I accomplish ?...
If you accomplish 2 days of sobriety, that will be plenty.

Often we're surprised to find that those first days / weeks sober are quite unproductive because we get a little 'washing machine' head / fuzziness, which makes things hard to process.

One thing well worth doing, I think, would be to do a (private if you wish, or on here) list of reasons you want to be sober. That way, when urges to drink kick in, and your Alcoholic Voice is whispering sweet deceit in your ear, you can re-read your list and remind yourself that alcohol is NOT the answer.

Also, it would be worthwhile to go online and check out and services or meetings in your area that are available to you. (AA / Smart / any others / maybe even the Samaritans - some people have had some very low moments, me included) Even if you don't want to use them; write the details down just in case you need them. Maybe even put them on your mobile phone address book. Those numbers could save you in the future.

Apart from that, just be wary of the HALT triggers (Hunger, Anger, Loneliness, and being Tired) and try your best to avoid these. Letting blood sugar drop will make things tougher, so try to eat little and often to keep it up, even if you don't 'feel' hungry (too much sugary stuff can be counter-productive as the sugar highs and crashes can send your emotions all over the place).

And post on here. Questions, responses, whatever. There are always people on here, and we'll be rooting for you.
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Old 09-26-2015, 12:10 AM
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Thanks beccybean
Some good advice there.
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