MyTime86

Too much going on, having a crappy day.
And tomorrow I have to go to my cousin bachelor party ( I am the best man) I been feeling down all day and knowing tomorrow is going to be draining. This summer is going to take everything out of me next weekend is the wedding. Three straight weeks in a row I will be around heavy drinking

Dee74

Take a plan with you mytime - what to say if you're offered a drink, what to do if cravings hit... and have an escape plan - noones going to miss you that much if you leave early.

Safeguard your sobriety. it's valuable.

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buk1000

MyTime, just try to focus on getting through tomorrow. Then you'll have a week to regroup and make it through the wedding. Then you get to enjoy the rest of your summer.

You made it through last weekend. Just take it one day at a time. And think it through and have a plan before you head out tomorrow.

You've got this.

MyTime86

Thanks dee. Just been feeling overwhelmed,
If need be all be on here talking it out with you fine folks

Soberintexas007

If you're feeling too overwhelmed, you can always cancel and explain the situation. Taking care of yourself should be your top priority! Good luck!

ScottFromWI

That's a tough one for sure. I think under the circumstances you would be completely justified in just not going. Have you talked to your friend about your situation?

MyTime86

Yea he's aware. But it's his bachelor party he doesn't care if I drink but to miss it would come off bad. I understand I need to do what I have to do for me but some people I have in my life I just have to take the bullet for

MyTime86

Made it through the bachelor party.
It wasn't to bad, boring because I was the only sober one but yea well. Always feels good to stay sober