cricket123

It's been wild the last 10 days ah had surgery on his knee my younger sister had a stroke (age 46 too young - she drinks heavy and does?) I got my 90 days in both of my jobs and my ah kicks me out of the house. It always pours

amy55

How are you doing right now? Are you OK? Do you want to talk about things. Just know, I care.

amy

cricket123

I'm ok - not sleeping but not surprised. At my sisters I'll stay here for awhile not sure what my next move will be. Glad tomorrow is another snow day I can regroup.

cricket123

Thank you

amy55

Hi cricket.

There were many times that I slept in my car, whether it be in parking lots, or in the garage. I'm am so happy that you found someplace to go tonight. I wish you would stay there for awhile so that the (fog) can clear from your head.

fog --- Fear, obligation, guilt........

Can you check in with us in the morning so that we know that you are OK?

I really do care about you.

((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))
amy

Hawkeye13

Keep moving forward cricket--things really will get better soon.

Frankly, being out of the AH "crazy orbit" will actually help--but get your stuff ASAP
and be safe doing it.

((((((Hugs))))))

Refiner

I'm sorry for the turmoil you find yourself in, Cricket. It sounds like things have been brewing and escalating for some time. I'm glad you're safe and at your sisters for now. Did I hear right that you've got 90 days in at TWO jobs? WOW! Good for you for becoming independent and hopefully will be able to financially support yourself and not have to depend on a drunken @$$ for that part. SR is a great place to vent and get great advice at the same time! I hope things start looking up for you...

Sungrl

Try and not to look at it so much as "he kicked you out'

Consider it as being he set you free. That may make you feel a tiny bit better.

Sungrl

double post sorry

cricket123

Love the - he set me free lol I didn't sleep good last night. I'm planning in staying at my sisters until I get it figured out. Dumb me I stopped the divorce because I want edit to work out - hard reality it's never boing to because he has chosen drinking over our family. I had to leave my adult child and my 16 year old in his cares ok hope they learn faster than I did.

As for karma my sister that had the stroke just received it. She is a lot like my ah mean and nasty to people. Still does not make it easy to watch. Seen karma a couple of times this week and it's not pretty - sorry ot tangent

I'm hoping for the best I have an apt with my counselor this afternoon, than I'm going to stop by the house and pick up more of my stuff ah should be with dd, he takes her to school and waits for her. Should be interesting

maia1234

C- I am sorry that you have had to leave and not take the kids. That is very hard to do. Make sure that they have phones so they can communicate with you. Not sure if your X would do anything stupid around them, but you never know. Just try and keep those lines of communication open with them.

Maybe soon you can get a place of your own and bring your kids along. You have done the best you can, and have gotten out of hxll!!

((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

NYCDoglvr

A very big hug. I've been through a few awful patches but they pass, things get better. I'm so sorry about your sister, she is lucky to have you there. In times like this, prayer works.

hopeful4

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