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After years of drinking more and more, I have now managed to not touch a drop for 3 weeks. I once gave up for 6 months and I know you can never be complacent so here I am......
After years of drinking more and more, I have now managed to not touch a drop for 3 weeks. I once gave up for 6 months and I know you can never be complacent so here I am......
Hello Romandra. I am new here myself. Though I have been drunk thousands of times, I haven't had any, coming up on 4 years now. Not one drop. For me there is no such thing as one drop. I had been drinking for so long, I just wanted to try living another way -- sober -- I had heard good things . . . and to see what that was like for a change. Besides, with how it was effecting my heart, it was clear to me that the next time could be the last time, and that seemed rather serious -- like I was going to quit one way or the other. My doctor was saying that we really want to keep your heart beating. I thought he might be onto something there.
And you are right to watch out for complacency. I have heard lots of people talk about that being a tough one and I can tell you for myself as well -- 'tis true, 'tis true. This one guy had been sober for a decade or so yet he said he worried everyday that that might be the day he would relapse. I guess that's one way to avoid complacency. For me anymore, I am just like, I like being sober too much, but even with that, when are any of us really out of the woods? Knock 'em dead, Romandra, or whatever you say across the pond.
AG
And you are right to watch out for complacency. I have heard lots of people talk about that being a tough one and I can tell you for myself as well -- 'tis true, 'tis true. This one guy had been sober for a decade or so yet he said he worried everyday that that might be the day he would relapse. I guess that's one way to avoid complacency. For me anymore, I am just like, I like being sober too much, but even with that, when are any of us really out of the woods? Knock 'em dead, Romandra, or whatever you say across the pond.
AG
Romandra - 3 weeks is something to be so proud of! I'm glad you joined us - we can help you on your journey. We all understand each other and the support is fantastic. Happy you are here.
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