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Old 12-14-2014, 06:20 AM
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2014 - Year of Hell

Hi all -

It's been a long time since I posted anything here. I've had a hellish six months that has not had anything to do with drinking. I've actually stayed sober since July 25, 2013.

My brother died accidentally while my family was on vacation in June. He was only 49 years old. He was a gifted musician and artist and a beloved uncle to his nieces and nephews. His untimely death has left a catastrophic hole in the lives of family and friends.

I don't know how I was able to deal with the most traumatic event I have ever experienced without drinking - butI have. This year's holiday season features the double whammy of fun - mourning for the loss of a loved one AND the ever omnipresent role alcohol plays this time of year.

Friends - please keep me and my family in your thoughts and prayers. I will honor the memory of my brother by staying sober and being fully present for the pain, the flood of emotions and the reconciliation that his death brings.
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Old 12-14-2014, 06:23 AM
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You will have my prayers, bowder. I am very sorry for the loss of your brother.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm in the same predicament. I lost my son a few month ago and now have to face xmas without him. Stay strong and know that others are facing similar pain.

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Hugs, dear Sarah.
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Bowder, the holiday season is especially hard in such circumstances. I'm very sorry for the loss of your brother. Prayers for you and your family.
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My sincerest condolences, bowder and Sara.
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(((Bowder))) (((Sarah)))

You're both in the right place and you are loved & supported here. Always.
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Prayers for the peace and comfort Bowder and Sarah need during this rough time. You have mine.
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Old 12-14-2014, 08:58 AM
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Bowder, I'm very sorry for the loss of your brother. I will be sending peaceful and healing thoughts to you and your family.
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Condolences Bowder im glad your here bud
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Old 12-14-2014, 10:39 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Bowder. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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My heart goes out to you and everyone dealing with loss this year.
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Thoughts are with you both!!
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