Do you love to be needed, or need to be loved?

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Old 11-07-2014, 01:36 PM
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Do you love to be needed, or need to be loved?

This article was one of the many eye-openers I had while dealing with my xabf. I may have gotten it from a post here, but I just found it in my computer. It helped me tremendously to see how my childhood was influencing my present need for men who I felt were beneath my status and wouldn't leave me, and who were emotionally unavailable. It's a definite read for anyone who has codie tendencies...I hope it helps

DO YOU LOVE TO BE NEEDED, OR NEED TO BE LOVED?
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Old 11-07-2014, 04:22 PM
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Thanks for sharing. It's getting late so I didn't read everything but I will -I saved the link. I read almost half of it and it's very interesting.... it feels like it will help me open my eyes on a LOT of stuffs.
I can't wait to get a steady job and find myself a therapist.
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Good article, though I only got part way through it. Will read the rest later

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 11-07-2014, 07:53 PM
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Really is"eye-opening " material:cuts through denial about a situation and our contribution to it.Thank you itsmylifenow.
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