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Old 10-13-2014, 05:16 AM
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15 days and holding...

I am happy to report that I am at 15 days. I made it two whole weekends!!! I thought to myself, how sad. All the wasted time over the last 20 years I spent drinking, socially or binge. I have had two fantastic weekends with my wife and kids. Saturday My 6 year old caught his first fish...all by himself, with his best friend. I was so proud of him. I was able to enjoy it without a hangover or thinking, "hope we can get back soon so I can get a drink."

I am so mad at myself for all the time I wasted not being my best, not enjoying my life without a haze. Not going to beat myself up. For all you Frozen fans, "I am not looking back the past is in the past...Let it go!" (Sorry, did I mention I have a 4 year old daughter too?)

I hope everyone has a fantastic week, with their goals in view. Bless you all with strength in the fight. I am praying for everyone here!
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:22 AM
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This is so great! I know exactly what you mean about being in the middle of an important moment and thinking, "hope we can get back soon so I can get a drink." Good for you...you're doing it!
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:29 AM
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15 days is amazing your doing great no point thinking whats happened

its all about whats happening and right now your 15 days how good is that ?

its really fantastic
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:31 AM
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Awesome going.

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Old 10-13-2014, 05:32 AM
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Great News!!!!

Yes, sober fishing with those we love - THAT memory will last a lifetime.

Glad you are here with us.....keep it up!!
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:35 AM
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looking back, one more pathetic observation. I think this is the longest I have gone without a drink since High School. Sad.
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Old 10-13-2014, 05:37 AM
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You're doing great! Your kids will love having you there properly to do this stuff
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Old 10-13-2014, 08:39 AM
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You've made a very important start! Don't beat yourself up over the past.......For me, I had to remember the past but move on.

A car has a rearview mirror, but we don't look at it when driving straight down the road!
If I regret the past and fear the future, I lose TODAY!

That Today is the only certain reality. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow may not happen.
Focus for today only and hug your kids!!

peace
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Fantastic!! Keep pushing through!!
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Old 10-13-2014, 10:36 AM
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Wow! That's great.
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congrats!

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Old 10-13-2014, 01:47 PM
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I agree. Be Here Now.

It works.

Can't unring the bell, best I can do is forgive myself and others and move forward.
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