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Old 06-25-2014, 07:34 AM
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its been awhile

Hey guys

I am back. I am happy to say I am ten days sober.

The best thing about sobriety is SLEEPING. I also have zero anxiety.

I have been to social gatherings and have declined drinking every time, even when I asked for water and my friend drunkenly handed me her vodka & water instead. I accidentally took a sip and hated it.

I decided to come back to SR because when I woke up today, instead of feeling grateful for ten days sober, I am making excuses to drink again.

I guess I just needed a reminder that alcohol wasn't doing me any favors. I am only 26 and just because i managed to not hit a rock bottom doesn't mean I shouldn't quit. And just because all my friends are partying doesn't mean it's right or that I have to partake in it.

I also need to remind myself of what I used to be. I really don't want to be that person again.

And I need to congratulate myself. Ten days is the longest in a few years. I feel great. Thanks for the support SR.
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Old 06-25-2014, 08:01 AM
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Welcome back Jade;
It's great to see you again.

You are right not to listen to that AV voice, or social pressures, but to do what is best for you.
Well done on 10 days!
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Old 06-25-2014, 08:05 AM
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Welcome back and congrats on 10 days!

Do a search for "Day 1" posts if you ever need a reminder of what really waits for us if we start to listen to those excuses and promises our addicition generates.
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Old 06-25-2014, 08:35 AM
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Welcome back, Jade

I think triple congratulations are in order:-

Congrats on 10 days

Congrats on tackling this at the tender age of 26 (I wish I had)

and congrats on giving up before reaching rock bottom

Sounds like a recipe for success to me!
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Welcome back Jade and congrats on 10 Days!
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Old 06-25-2014, 09:30 AM
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welcome back!! Great job on 12 Days!!
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Old 06-25-2014, 10:58 AM
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Thanks guys!! I am feeling stronger now.
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Old 06-25-2014, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Jade1224 View Post
Hey guys

I am back. I am happy to say I am ten days sober.

The best thing about sobriety is SLEEPING. I also have zero anxiety.

I have been to social gatherings and have declined drinking every time, even when I asked for water and my friend drunkenly handed me her vodka & water instead. I accidentally took a sip and hated it.

I decided to come back to SR because when I woke up today, instead of feeling grateful for ten days sober, I am making excuses to drink again.

I guess I just needed a reminder that alcohol wasn't doing me any favors. I am only 26 and just because i managed to not hit a rock bottom doesn't mean I shouldn't quit. And just because all my friends are partying doesn't mean it's right or that I have to partake in it.

I also need to remind myself of what I used to be. I really don't want to be that person again.

And I need to congratulate myself. Ten days is the longest in a few years. I feel great. Thanks for the support SR.
Welcome back. Wanting to quit is the most important part. I found for me, "rock bottoms" (or horrible events that would seem like rock bottoms to neutral observers) did nothing, I just went back to the drinking even stronger than ever just to show everyone I could still do it. I only quit when I had a true desire to quit, which it sounds like is where you are at. You have to want it, that's what matters the most, not where you are in your life...

Congrats on 10 days!
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