rando6386

Day 1 of my journey sucks when you realize how much you hurt the loved ones in your life...... My g/f always said i had a problem and after lastnight i finally see i coulds bren seriously injured ... Cant do it on my own so if u guys wanna help hmu

Timmah

Welcome. Give us as much as you are comfortable with sharing. No judgements here. Only lots of great folks who know the struggle.

PurpleKnight

Welcome to the Forum!! you'll find loads of support here!!

Thepatman

Welcome, you made the biggest step I think. It's hard to admit to ourselves that something is wrong and we have a problem.

Relationships can be worked on and most of the time fixed with a sober approach and a clear mind.

Glad you joined

freedragonfly

I am at the very beginning too. realized I needed help to quit after trying many times to quit on my own without success. welcome. so far this place has helped me quite a bit.

kellyrally

hey, it is the start for me too - go us! You have done the right thing

Hevyn

Good to meet you Rando. We are here to help - you found a great place for support.

None of us set out to hurt our loved ones. Try not to dwell on the past - look forward to a new and better life. You can do this.

rando6386

Thankyou to all of you.... one day at a time right

BGS9595

Day 1 sucks, I cried most of the day. It gets exponentially better really quickly though, just take it 1 day at a time and you will feel better soon!!!

rando6386

Yea once the hangover is gone

Dee74

Welcome to SR Rando

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rando6386

Thankyou

rando6386

Day 2 I still feel like a pos but my head is more clearer..... none of my loved ones want nothing to dowith me

Sobertaurus

You can do this! Check in often! We are all here to support you and walking this road together one day at a time. You have a lot of people here who have all gone through day one, day two, etc.

Jupiters

they may need some more time to come around. Especially if you have said in the past you will stop....people tend to get walls/boundaries set up to protect themselves, understandably so right?
Hang in, keep moving forward, one day at a time....when they see progress, most family/friends will slowly let those guards down.

Welcome

rando6386

Thankyou these first days are really hard bc picking up that bottle is easier theb dealing with the pain but i Erin ley myself fail

Jupiters

just remember how much worse it can all get if you do pick that bottle up. Play the tape to the end.

rando6386

I will succeed

HeadLump

Welcome, rando Stick with it - life really is so much better sober

rando6386

Its gotta be better then the fights and always letting people down