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Old 04-21-2014, 03:44 PM
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Prayers please

My ABF's funeral is tomorrow. I love him and will miss so much about him.

Thanks to you though, I am also able to see more clearly the weakness that he had. It makes it easier to deal with this because I know he did have choices and it is the choices that he made that brought us here. So sad as I am, I know that I can also choose to have a happy life too. I just need some time to grieve and then I can move on. I don't think I could have considered this without reading your stories and your advice to my thoughts and questions. I hope that I can return that in some way for others here. x
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Prayers for you to be comforted going up Thinking. I've been on both sides of this thing and lost my alcoholic many years ago. I'm glad you've been helped by words you've read here. May your loved one RIP - he is free now.
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I'm so sorry Thinking. Prayers for you, and all of you who love him.

Take care of you.
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:12 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. Prayers of strength for you for tomorrow and for beginning to grieve and to heal.
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:41 PM
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I, too, am so sorry for your loss. Prayers going up for you and all who loved him.

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 04-21-2014, 05:14 PM
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Big prayers for you, Thinking. Hugs.
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Old 04-21-2014, 05:19 PM
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I'm very sorry it had to end this way. Prayers to you bad his family.
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Old 04-21-2014, 06:13 PM
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I am so, so sorry. Many prayers!
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Old 04-21-2014, 08:53 PM
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Praying for peace and comfort for you!
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:00 PM
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((((Thinking)))) Prayers go with you. I'm so very sorry for your loss! Do you have support for yourself?
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Thinking of you and wishing you peace and healing. xo
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Old 04-21-2014, 09:48 PM
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Thank you all so much. I'm glad of the strength you are giving me. I do have support both friends and family, keepingthefaith. The guidance and wisdom I get here is irreplaceable though.

Notthemama, I read your story. It has so many similarities to mine. I learnt a lot from reading it. I wish strength and healing for you too on these next days and on to your happy future.

I'm still glad I met and fell in love with my bf. He gave me hope and such love. It's so painful though to watch someone unable to stop destroying themself and our future. I don't wish it for anyone else.
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Old 04-22-2014, 09:35 AM
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Big tight hugs. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is a terrible thing that you are having to go through. May God hold you tight in his arms. We are here for you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers during this difficult time.
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Old 04-22-2014, 03:06 PM
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You've been in my thoughts today.
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